why is it so hard to find a real girl, not someone pretending good, bad, or just plain ugly, real is better?

Answer 1

Its too hard to know if someone is being themself or is being someone else just to impress you or get you, and then let you go. The best way to go about finding a girl, is well, to not. Do things for yourself, be happy with yourself, and sooner or later, a girl will just find you, she will come along when you least expect it.

Also i think a few people had some really good answers above (lefang, and dominique) me, so read all the advice, and take some of it with you :-)

Answer 2

I have found through my experience that finding is the problem if you are actively looking your are also judging all of these women you meet and putting them in to catagories where you should be yourself and let what ever is going to happen happen or failling that if you dont think fate is your friend try and make friends with the women you meet first get to no them before getting yourself committed to judging the person frienship is the basis for any great relationship

Answer 3

I think for a lot of people the temptation to misrepresent themselves online is just too great. Maybe you should try looking for a real girl in real places...

Answer 4

Sometimes people have difficulty expressing themselves to others, so they stress on how they should act around people. They probably do this because they are afraid of what others will think of them and thus, one can find it hard to find someone who is actually "real" to themselves...

Answer 5

well its prob so hard to find a real girl bc all of em think they have to b someone there not! ya i know i think real is a lot better to but just keep looking and im sure u will find her. :)

Answer 6

I think you need to change your standards and start going after those ones you call "ugly" you shallow person.