He is amazing, and we connected almost instantly. We've been talking(in person he isn't an internet fling) for about a month now, and it seems to be going well. Nobody know about us yet but we wonder if things go on will we be accepted? We have done nothing physical yet, but want to. It's just important for me to get to know him first.
2006-07-24 11:52:44 · 31 answers · asked by ** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have been married to a man 20 years older than me for 5 years I am 26 he is 46. Go for what floats your boat, dont worry about the people and as long as you get the most important questions [rent, kids, dishes, etc ] out the way you'll be fine. good luck
2006-07-24 12:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Taboo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, just imagine 20 years of Gravity. Will he still be that smooth talking, older guy with all of the right answers. Use him, abuse him, then kick him to the curb. Just kidding. I should write Novels...
I hadn't seen the love of my life for 25 years, and when we met up in
Istanbul, Turkey, it was as if time had stood still. Our hearts still beat strong for each other, even though he now, had a family that he cherished. I have his son whom I have also cherished. Sometimes spirits are supposed to find each other, for a while in time..
2006-07-24 12:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by gypsyworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't matter to the both of you then why should it matter to anyone else. The relationship will consist of you and him, that's it! Not your parents, not his parents, your friends or his friends...just the two of you and that is the way it should be. The world would be a much kinder and gentler place if everyone could just worry about their own business and not everybody else's. Enjoy your life and love your man. Listen to nothing but your heart.
2006-07-24 12:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by gmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your over 18, you can do just about anything you want...and if you really love this guy, your friends and family are just going to have to accept him, and if they don't, then they dont' really care about you. It's your life, if he makes you feel like your the only girl on the earth, and you truely love him...age doesn't matter...it's the feel the person brings you
2006-07-24 11:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nanner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT get physical unless he marries you! The age difference (20 years) is huge. Think of it this way.
When you are 43 he will be 63.
2006-07-24 11:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means get to know him first and find out if he is just playing with you. Don't you eventually want marriage? Is he just wanting to play? and if that is true then will he be in the way of your finding the right one.? A lot of guys in their 40's don't want long term commitmentsThey want to play the field.I've met a lot of them that only want your body. If so they will throw you away as fast as they found you.
2006-07-24 11:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by zarandipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two really have a connection age doesn't matter. I am 11 years older than my wife and there is no problem.
2006-07-24 12:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 37 and he's 24 and we have been together over a year, age ijust a number. My mom and dad were 28 yrs apart and they were toether for over 30 yrs.
2006-07-24 12:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liz, baby, in these days and times nothing really matters anymore even if your bf is 80 years old and in a wheel chair.
2006-07-24 11:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby is now 31 and i am 20 we met when i was 15 we have been unsepertable ever since no one excepted us his parents nor mine they thought i was just beiing talk into something but we really love each other and yes hes alot older but i have an amazing attration to him as he dose with me and we are really happy but before you jump into any thing you need to decide what the relationship is to you and him like you are young so is he going to ba able to trust you to go out with friends or is he going to want you to be under his watchful eye and is he going to want kids marrage etc. and the same thing gose for you are you going tyo be able to please him no matter what other ppl think make sure you can pls each other before you try to pls your friends and family and see were it is going before even tell anyone
2006-07-24 12:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋