Me and my husband recently became pregnant but i get a lot of negitive remarks about my age . My thing is im 20 going on 21 and i have my nursing Degree my husband is 31 we have been together for 5 years . I dont see anything wrong with this picture but the other day i was in the grocery store and a man said to his teenage daughter you dont want to end up like her so you better not have sex . i deal with alot of comments like that and i dont know what my reaction should be but i dont see anything wrong with my life and i am very happy.
2006-07-24 11:48:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just say, "I'm older than I look." I got comments like that when I was pregnant and 25! People are horrible..
2006-07-24 12:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time just say that while you are preg. you did the mature thing and waited for marriage to bring a baby into your world,you were financially prepared, educated with a good lifetime skill, and had 5 yrs of marriage to make sure you knew each other before adding to the family!!! That will put a nosy person in place and be a testament for the youth to follow. You are doing great! Not all 20 yr old are that well prepared! Keep it up!
2006-07-24 19:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! What a horrid man!
Let me say CONGRATS on your upcoming little one. I don't think there's anything at ALL wrong with what's happening in your life. My gosh, look at the wonderful things you and your husband have going for you...careers, obviously lots of shared love, and I'm sure a warm and glorious home just waiting for that new bundle of happiness.
Sweetie, don't you worry...there's nothing wrong with your world, it's obviously just the low end of the gene pool who're voicing opinions better kept to themselves. They have no right whatsoever to say ANYTHING, never mind something negative! If I were you, I'd just try my best to ignore an obnoxious person like that and just enjoy every minute of that new life growing beneath your heart.
Best of luck to you all!
Hugs
Snakelady_foxcreek
2006-07-24 18:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by snakelady_foxcreek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take that guy's remark as a compliment. U must look younger than u are. Don't worry about hat others think, as long as u know u didn't make a bad decision.
2006-07-24 18:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey there are such ignorant people in this world. Congrats on the baby, how very exciting for you. My daughter is 22 and her fiance is 32 and they just had their first baby...my first grandaughter. That kids father in the store, is just one of those mean spirited people that we all try and avoid in this world. You just take care of you.
2006-07-24 18:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're happy go for it girl. I was married at 21 and had a child too. He is now 23 and I still love him and my life. Paul
2006-07-24 18:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please continue with your life .. people just say things to be spitful and have alot of hatred for the wrong people. you and your husband are fine and you being pregnant is a blessing from God that put you 2 together to have a beautiful life out of it. congrats and good luck
2006-07-24 18:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by LISANRJ06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my take on what happened, he didn't mean "YOU personally" he just meant he didn't want his teenage daughter pregnant.
You just so happen to be in that place at the time.
They don't know you, don't take it personally.
2006-07-24 18:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by day by day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those that love you support you and are happy for you, those that don't ....don't matter. Ignore them. Tomorrow when those jerks wake up they still have to be who they are and you get to be you :)
2006-07-24 19:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by perplexed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋