My husband is deployed and I am sleeping with a mutual friend of ours ONLY to satisfy my loneliness. This was a mututal decision between me & our friend. I think things might be getting to emotional on his end. He says he feels a bit guilty but still wants to help me out with my needs. What do I do?
2006-07-24 11:28:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
even if he is getting attatched sounds like he is getting the best end of this deal.. I'm sure any guy out there would probably HELP you out.. ;)
2006-07-24 11:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
What would you do if it was your spouse. How would you feel.
Break off with this person who is suppose to be yours/husbands friend. You miswell tell your spouse and hope for the best. Better out of your mouth than someone elses. Or this friend may try to keep this tangeled web and blackmail you.
2006-07-24 18:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by angeleloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is deployed and protecting our country and your playing a slutty unfaithful wife--how disguisting. SHAME on you and his friend. What should you do? get a divorce ..stop cheating ... you are why us ladies get a bad rep with the guys. how sad. need something to satisfy your loneliness? by a vibrator..buy a dog... do something with your life.. your sick.
2006-07-24 18:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this should have been a discussion you and your husband should have made. ..... but if not or if it is ...it needs to be ended now.... I hope things work out for you and your husband, I would hate to see a marriage go bad over something dumb like simple pleasure
2006-07-24 19:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by sparky657 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are using him. and being unfaithful to someone you mad vows to...that kinda sucks. =T.. i know it is hard being lonely, but love can conquer all things (if it is strong and pure enough). u have to work at it (keep urself busy, hang out w/ good friends, family, etc). if u really care about ur "friend", u should cut it off and stop using him for ur own needs. it's selfish and he's doing it cuz he thinks he is either using u too, OR he's falling in love w/ you. either way...it's not a good combination in terms of any marriage.
2006-07-24 18:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'If you know right from wrong you shouldn't have to ask.What about your husbands loneliness. Do your husband a favor and take a long walk on a short pier
2006-07-24 18:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Pat L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do that to ur husband break it off and by the way u didn't have to get another guy u could have got a little some thing or pleasured ur self
2006-07-24 18:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me that could hurt you marriage. tell that friend that he needs to let his feelings go because you don't feel the same way. when is your husband suppose to come home? think about it, if you haven't heard that song whiskey lullabye, listen to it. it will make you think. if your husband doesn't know about this and he walks in one day and catches you and your friend having sex untelling what could happen next. think about what you would lose. make the right choice. good luck
2006-07-24 18:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by ghostly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Webguy 34 is 100% correct!
2006-07-24 18:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE WRONG AS HELL. YOUR HUSBAND IS RISKING HIS LIFE SO THE LIKES OF YOU & YOUR MUTAL FRIEND (WITH FRIENDS LIKE HIM WHO NEEDS ENEMIES) CAN SCREW HIM OVER WHILE HE IS GONE. MUST BE TRUE LOVE.
You need to END THE AFFAIR because that's what it is. Call a spade a spade don't pretend you don't know it's wrong and you don't know what to do.
AND TELL YOUR HUSBAND THEN BEG FOR HIS FORGIVENESS.
2006-07-24 18:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh we are so proud that your husband is fighting for our country,risking his life so
you can be safe in the bed with his friend .It will make it so easy for you if he does
not make it back ,you won't miss a beat .
2006-07-24 18:36:53 · answer #11 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋