He's been really shady with his phone, and lockin it up. He so called says that he's going out with his guys at night, but I'm not sure if he's with them or another female.
2006-07-24 11:24:10 · 14 answers · asked by Michelle L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when we were still , I caught him cheating... so far in this marriage He hasn't. None that I know of. but now... As it's getting closer and closer to our baby's due date, he's more distant. He never want to be with me, he yells at me... and he's just not the same. He makes me feel ugly, stupid and fat...
2006-07-24 11:26:36 · update #1
I am 8 1/2 months pregnant!!!! This is his second child. Our first one didn't make it.
2006-07-24 11:51:04 · update #2
I chose to him over my family, so ofcourse I have no one but him. He knows that, but still makes me feel so sad. He doesn't care if I cry, he just continues playing his video . He doesnt want to work anything out, and I don't want to let him go becuz we've been together for 3 years.
2006-07-24 11:55:13 · update #3
If you have some family members close by, I suggest that you get away from him and stay with them during your pregnancy. You don't want to harm your baby by being upset all of the time. I know it's tough, but you have to realize that you can do bad by youself.
2006-07-24 11:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him! You have to do what is best for your child. Being raised by someone who doesn't know what a marriage is supposed to be, and who obviously doesn't care about the mother, is not a good environment for the baby. Plus, you certainly don't need the stress. Get out now!
2006-07-24 18:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by oneladyice1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need this right now u need a man with a backbone even if hes scared of becoming a father he needs 2 grow up and put u 1st instead of acting like a child u already gonna have one of those soon enough so dont put up with any crap and think of yourself and ur baby!!good luck remember women r the stronger sex its not just a saying.
2006-07-24 18:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by sarah71397 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sorry about that. I think the best way is the divorce. looking for an attorney and ask for yours rights in the law.
be happy and try to chose better your next relationship.
don't cry any more.
2006-07-24 19:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by diced tomatoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this his first child? It could be he doesn't know how to handle becoming a father and taking it out on you is the only thing he can think of. Of course, this doesn't excuse his actions.
2006-07-24 18:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real. The guy's a loser and you need to find a way out. Sounds like you are making this up because i cannot imagine ANYONE who would take this kind of abuse.
2006-07-24 18:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him now.
The reverse happened to my boyfriend and his first wife. they are divorced now and since they got out of the marriage early they can be friends, which is good for both of them and their son.
Get out of it now. Take a month, live with friends, family, whatever. He sounds like he is beginning the signs of abuse. Get out now.
2006-07-24 18:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by pixipaperdollfairee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you deserve way better! You can raise that baby by yourself you dont need that loser! Maybe he will realize what hes lost when its gone! But yeah dump him! Once a cheater always a cheater!!!! LOL!
2006-07-25 02:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by brittanyj05cm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have the baby, leave him and take him to court for child support. And then find someone who doesn't make you feel bad about yourself.
2006-07-24 18:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the baby..Dump the Loser..Why try to beat a dead horse..Let him go and go on with your life...I guantee that you will be a lot happier and so will the baby.....But in hindsight, you should have known that this donkey would act as ***...
2006-07-24 18:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by Feisty AKA Mrs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋