Just moved in w/ my man and was cool until about a week ago, attitude changed and seems to be snappy, geez I cook for him and clean what else could he want, he says He loves me and hes fine and we have spent alot of time together before moving in?
2006-07-24 11:08:00 · 7 answers · asked by lologrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he didn't change, it's just the real him at home
2006-07-24 11:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by 21questions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living together takes an adjustments - even if you spent a lot of time before - living together is a whole different story. If he says he is fine - then give him some space - constantly asking him what is wrong will only aggrevate him. You have probably changed to him as well - you just don't realize it. People need down time and time not to be "on". Before you lived together you could each go home and be completely yourselves - now, guess what, you are together 24/7 - it takes some getting used to.
2006-07-24 11:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by socaljules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. We moved in together 6 weeks ago and I am already moving out. It is my opinion that all the nicetys when we were dating were just that. He did not tell the truth in alot of serious matters, and they have since caught up with him and now he blows it off, like, so what? I'll tell you so what. You do not lie about never being in love, then admit after 4 weeks of living together that you have been in love many times. Now, we are together in the "Real" environment. Mine did not change-he is and always will be an a** hole! I'm looking for a support group now! Good news is, I will not fall for that cr*&P again! Peace Out! Thanks peeps for hearing me out! Can I get an AMEN!
2006-07-24 11:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by educated guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no longer fairly that men had replace, its honestly you get to understand the actual 'him' after shifting jointly. Or if no longer will be that both events start up to have a lot more effective time jointly, little confilicts take position right here and there and ultimately both will start up questioning that the different party have replace. equivalent to being jointly is continually a lot less confusing than staying jointly.
2016-11-25 22:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are afraid they'll have to share the remote. It's a tied down feeling that never goes away. Good luck.
2006-07-24 11:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Misanick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all change, whether you move in, get married, or whatever. They work so hard to make you theirs, that after they've "sealed the deal" they don't think they have to work at it anymore.
2006-07-24 11:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. a guy at home is different from the one you know. if you can love a guy in his own habitat, than u belong together. good luck
2006-07-24 11:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by af4sguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋