2006-07-24 11:04:55 · 13 answers · asked by liltexas36 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is a very sticky situation. Most of the time, you can tell a friend and she may stop talking to you all together, even if you're close friends. Most of the time,they stay with their Husbands until they find out themselves. Only way you can tell is if she has an idea of what's going on. Knowingly, you want to look out for your friend if you decide to tell, be prepared for the worst. You may have good intentions,just understand it may not turn out how you expect.Good Luck!!
2006-07-24 11:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Rhea M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look this is more of a suttle way, but if you know where the cheat meet goes on, tell your friend you have some bad news for her and let her know where she can go and see it for herself. Hey if you lose your friend then she really doesn't appreciate it that you care for her and don't want to see her get hurt any longer. Good luck !
2006-07-24 18:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Certainly would do her the big favor of telling her but i wouldn't give her a chance to shoot the messenger. You have to be clever about it. Send an anonymous note with any details that may help her catch them in the act. Once she has the information, woman's intuition will suss the rat out and you can be there for her when she needs you without putting yourself in a compromising position. i think not bringing this to her attention is helping her being made a fool of. good luck
2006-07-24 18:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by DONNAIS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good friends with the gal, and if you have all the facts, then yes, I would rat the guy out. Once a man is married, his flings are a thing of the past. If he wants to screw around, then why get married? Your friend may be mad at first, but when she sees what's going on, she'll thank you for telling her the truth. I would only do this with a really good friend. One who knows you and knows you are telling her to help her.
2006-07-24 18:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ex New Yorker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one!
One of my best friends, her husband is a PIG!!! Last X'mas, she discovered that her husband had been in contact with a former friend of ours for one whole year - he neither admitted nor denied it, and she doesn't know the nature of their relationship - but as far as all of us are concerned, she's a total skank for messing with a friend's husband. And ever since then she's been in a 'hear no evil-see no evil' frame of mind. To make matters worse, he's hit on another of my best friends, and on me as well -of course neither of us pursued it.
She does not plan on leaving him any time soon, mainly because they have two children - a daughter (2, she's my god-daughter) and a 8-mth old son, and she's totally dependent on him financially. She works part-time as a kindergarten teacher, but is planning on quitting and being a stay-at-home mom. She will not do anything to jeopardise her childrens' future. I don't want to lose my friendship, as well as my goddaughter, even though I know she needs to know the truth about her husband.
I have promised myself that if he tries anything funny again with me, I will tell her, and damn the consequences.
If that ever happens to me, I would appreciate my friends telling me.
2006-07-24 19:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would and i would also get some evdience .so u wont loses ur bff for a man
2006-07-24 18:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by cutieamorousgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but be prepared to lose the friend, they always shoot the messenger.
2006-07-24 18:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by dhebert244 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I knew beyond the shadow of a doubt, THEN HELL YES I'll TELL HER.
2006-07-24 18:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Butt out. You won't be thanked if you interfere. Mind your own business.
2006-07-24 18:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course if your a real friend
2006-07-24 18:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♪Ms.J♥Virgo♣♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋