It's nothing like illegal or anything but I've gone from fantasising about two girls to things like bi-sexuality and BDSM. Is this normal?
2006-07-24 10:50:37 · 12 answers · asked by Mikec 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
'the surest way to overcome a temptation is to give in to it.'
[oscar wilde]
2006-07-24 10:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by synopsis 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has been shown that many women of your age are just now reaching their sexual peak. (Why do you think some people are so hot to have sex with older women?)
I was 40 before I discovered the BDSM world. Prior to that time, all I knew of the lifestyle was the charicature portrayed in the media. But once I did find out about what I was missing, I found my true calling.
I suspect that you've recently had some exposure to these other lifestyles that you've been fantasizing about, and you were at least a little bit intrigued. Also, just because we fantasize about doing something, that doesn't mean we want to do that thing in actuality. Go ahead, explore your fantasies, safely and in the privacy of your own bedroom. And have fun.
2006-07-24 12:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by arani_csa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just have an overactive imagination and some things you wish you could have done at a younger age you want to do now like two gils(so hot) I personally thing bi sex uality is crazy and shouldnt be done unless you are a girl
2006-07-24 11:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with the Law of Diminishing Returns. After awhile, it takes wilder fantasies to achieve the same level of stimulation. It's normal, and as long as it's consentual and safe, there's no harm in it.
2006-07-24 10:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry in another 20 years you wont have the fantasies anymore
2006-07-24 10:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by antiekmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freedom exposes the best and worst in each of us. You are getting more and more independent. My advice, use your self-control. Do not be stupid when the best of your life is in front of you.
2006-07-24 10:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cogito Sum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i have to say is....Each person has there own thing...And if u want tolive those fantasies...Cool....I mean u only live 1 life..And if you want that 3some or girl girl...Then go 4 it hun...ENJOY your life while your have it
2006-07-24 10:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by maddog277 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess there is a natural cycle of doing everything in the course of the human life
2006-07-24 10:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by Harezichi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good thing there are so many websites out there catering to your proclivities. Go for it!
2006-07-24 10:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me too, at about the same age.
2006-07-26 18:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Dom N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋