continuance to my previous question,,,,,,,,,,,,
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,I'm afraid to take a test in case it's positive as my boyfriend's gone away for the next two month's.
2006-07-24 10:49:03 · 36 answers · asked by sexyeyes 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hiya,I really do feel that you will feel much better once you have done the test.. the unknown is always scary but once you've done the test you can start making some decisions about what your going to do if you are pregnant and that has to be better than sitting there worrying!
why has your boyfriend gone away for two months, if you don't mind me asking?
does he know you might be pregnant?
good luck and DO that test for your own peace of mind because lets face it you can't wait another two months to do the test can you....
2006-07-24 10:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by maidenrocks 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your boyfriend is gone for the next two months should hold no relevance right now. I know that is easier said than done of course. Regardless of where or how you take the test you have to get it done. If you don't find out if you are with child you will jepordize your baby and possibly yourself. If you have to take a test by yourself and find out the results. If they are negative , then retest in front of your mother and there will be no shock for you of the results. If you are positive results you will need to sit and talk out your options with your BF or your mom. Either way you will not be alone in the situation. Mothers are women too, they can sense changes in our bodies. I have 3 kids, my mom knew I was pregnant all 3 times before I did. It's that maternal instinct. You have to find out what your situation is so you can prepare yourself for it. You could be stressing over nothing. You will never find out until you seek the answers.
2006-07-24 11:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by busyliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I just read your previous questions & you are really in a pickle!!
If you take the test at least you will know for sure - there are only two ways for it to go - yes or no.
Why is your mum so convinced that you are pregnant?
If you are, the deed has been doen so you will have to live with the consequences (that being a baby who needs to be loved).
What difference does it make the your bf is going away for 2 months? You need him nearer the end & maybe to go to your parenting lessons which are from 26 weeks onwards.
Good luck :-0
2006-07-24 11:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by MISS B.ITCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing, don't be afraid. But putting off doing a test wont change the result. Get a test and ask your best friend to be with you when you do it. Good luck. Let us know how you get on.
2006-07-24 10:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what the first person said was kind of harsh..it takes two to have sex..he could have kept his d*ck in his pants as well. If it's positive then it is and if it's not then it's not. Wether he is gone or not, if you are pregnant you need to know so you can take care of yourself to ensure a healthy pregnancy.
2006-07-24 10:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was the baby planned [ if u are pregnant] is yes then dont be afraid to do the test and tell him when he returns i would be a nice surprise. on the other hand if it was not planned then if i were u i would do the test and put my mind to rest then phone him and tell him or wait till u see him then tell him , whichever u think he would prefere. hope this helps as it something similar to what i did
2006-07-24 10:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by xxxwildxxxchildxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnant... not taking a test won't make it go away! Just take the test and then you can sort things out. If your not pregnant then your worring yourself for nothing
Good Luck
D*
2006-07-24 12:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be afraid. Take the test and contact him immediately if its positive. I hope he loves you enough and is man enough to take responsibility. dont worry and upset yourself at this time as it will affect your unborn baby. Talk to it, sing to it and keep laughing and you will have a happy baby if you are anxious you will have a fretful baby.....come on pet....its a lovely experience and Im sure he will be happy also.
2006-07-24 10:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Putting things off won't solve anything. You need to find out whether you're pregnant NOW! Pretending will not make it go away. And there's always the possibility that you aren't pregnant.
2006-07-24 10:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have afriend you can talk to about this?
It will be scary to find out that you are pregnant BUT you are already scared not knowing and the longer you wait the more scared you are getting.
If you dont have anyone you can share this with the n do it anyway and tell us?
2006-07-24 10:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by cate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋