2006-07-24 10:14:54 · 12 answers · asked by Tosh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he hasn't changed over two years, if he repeats the same behaviours over and over, what makes you think he'll change now? You either accept him (eg settle for less than second best) or go off and make a fresh start and say you deserve better.
Why do you think you have to put up with it? Why is being with him preferable to being alone if he just makes you unhappy?
2006-07-24 10:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by sarah c 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The person you are involved with is unlikely to change after 2 yrs. Was he like this when you met him? or have you grown like this together? Do not consider yourself a prisoner, if you are not happy - get out. Be happy in your life. Life is too short for this BS.
2006-07-24 10:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men expect a woman to never change
Women expect to change a man
Both are wrong
2006-07-24 10:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Augie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he wont change if he hasn't in 2 years and know his actions upset you and still does it then he will never change
2006-07-24 10:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is do u want him to with help some people can change or may be he is happy the way he is and just using you he know that you will be there having his cake and eating it all to himself
2006-07-24 10:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by christine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope! I had 5 years worth of it, my fella has just finished me for a third time leaving me heart broken again - he'll never change, he'll always put his best mate, beer and work before me!
2006-07-24 10:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by HLW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he wont change,,,,,,,, if after 2 years he's not got any better and your still with him,,,, why should he change for you,,,,to him he can treat you like dirt or worse and you will still stay with him,,,,stop being a door mat, go, find a man that will love you,
2006-07-24 10:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by tors 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will change, once you're gone. It's always "Don't know what you got, 'til it's gone." You may have to produce a very believable threat; that's if you still want him.
2006-07-24 10:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They never changes....and if your not happy and they aren't making you happy then you should move on and find someone that makes you feel good and happy not someone that puts more stress and ache in your life......Good Luck:)
2006-07-24 10:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango... and if you chose him as he was... you can't change him... you must change... adapt and cope within the situation, without compromising your own integrity and self, or move on!
2006-07-24 10:18:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋