2006-07-24 09:52:17 · 19 answers · asked by micheal n 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What's wrong with being happy all the time??
Gay is an adjective meaning "carefree", "happy", or "bright and showy"
2006-07-24 09:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can you change being blond?can you change having blue eyes?Yes. You can paint your hair blond , you can buy contact lenses. But will you truly be blond, or have blue eyes? NO!It's a lousy comparison, but being gay you can sleep with tons of women , but will you be straight? No!
Some people pretend they are straight cause being straight is "easier", but they end up miserable. You can build your life with a women and have children, but it won't change your feelings. It's hard to admit to being gay because you don't know how your friends will accept you, what your family will say. And it's much harder to find a gay guy than a straight guy. It's a harder way of life, but it's the way you ARE and what makes it so hard is sometimes yourself.If you are happy with yourself, so should be everyone else.
There are gay guys that have relationships longer than any straight man, and they are perfectly happy.
You need to be happy with yourself , and you need to accept yourself the way you are. People will only love you if you love yourself.
Why don't you want to be gay, if that's how you feel?Being gay is not a defect or whatever, it's only.. different. Accept it, and you will have no problems. Don't worry!
2006-07-24 18:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by =) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I'm really not sure what to say. Some people say it is a choice, and some say its not. I really dont know what it is. All I know is you can fight what you r, and if you dont want to be, I dont see how you can be. What makes you think you r gay? If it is just because you think people of the same sex r attractive, it doesnt mean u r gay. Everyone thinks that way. I used to think Angalina Jolie (sorry if spelled wrong) sexy and I wanted her, but it just turned out that I just thought she was beautiful. Nothing wrong with that. It went away.
What ever you r just be happy with it.
2006-07-24 17:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being gay is a choice. It is ok to be gay.. if you don't want to be there is nothing you can do. It's up to how u feel if your only attracted to the same sex and decided to marry someone of the opposite u might live an unhappy life. its a choice, if your young live life longer to see what you really want.
2006-07-24 17:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by tansyangeni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not entirely sure it's something you can help man (woman). You hear all these stories about men or women denying their feelings marrying, having children, and being miserable. Is that really what you want?
Don't be scared to be you, and if there are people who don't accept you for who you are, then you don't need them either. You might also just be experiencing bi-curious feelings which is somewhat normal. Just because you see a really built guy (girl), and think "Damn they look good!" does not mean you are gay.
Good luck with everything.
2006-07-24 17:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jorge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to provide more evidence. Do you get excited looking at members of the same sex? If you try to hide it, it will eventually surface anyway. If you are young embrace it early so as not to cause problems later for yourself and other people. Seek help in the form of counseling. It does not mean that anything is wrong with you , but you may be able to get help figuring it out.
2006-07-24 17:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by SONG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know God made man and woman no something else, I don't want to be Rudd with u, but the true is that I don't believe that God made something like "gay or lesbian", to pray to God and read the Bible and u gonna find something to think about it and answer you by yourself...to pray to God if u think or feel gay, if u want a friend to talk...u can write me chulaguatemalan83@yahoo.com OK..God bless u, maybe my answer is not perfect or the best, but I don't have nothing else to answer..only God made "man and woman"...
2006-07-24 17:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by chula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be scared to expore this feeling. you can find answers by talking in gay forums and express your fears about it and if they assure you that you will be fine, just embrace being gay. it isn't something you should be ashamed of. it's just how you were born and how you will live your life.
2006-07-24 17:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Hamster Puff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was reading this book called gurlolgy it said you won't really know if you are gay until you are about 18
2006-07-24 17:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by *Chocalate Drop* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you think your gay and i need more details.
2006-07-24 16:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋