I am average she is obese what are the best sexual positions I can use. She can never seem to put herself at the right angle for Doggie Style. Her body seems to force me downward making penetration harder in that position.
When we do missionary she has to hold up her legs and that makes it less comfortable for her and impossible for her to orgasm that way.
2006-07-24 09:28:05 · 16 answers · asked by Zyris Nevada 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
to powderjusblazin Although I find your answer funny. You cannot win best answer with that. I am no John Holmes by any means, But tiny tim I am not either but thatnks for the laugh :)
2006-07-25 02:59:21 · update #1
Good for you for being accepting of an over-weight woman. We need love, too. She could straddle you. Try putting a pillow under her when she's on ber stomach. How high is the bed? Could she lean over the bed while you are standing? Try an adult video; there are plenty with BBW. That should give you some ideas.
2006-07-24 09:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by ninusharra 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sex Positions For Obese
2016-11-07 11:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by feiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and I have both put on a few extra pounds and have been doing a little bit of experimenting ourselves. I was informed by my doctor that I have a tilted cervix and therefore it is even more complicated to find the right position for both of our satisfaction, but I think that we have found a couple.
try placing a good firm pillow under her bum while in the missionary position - this allows for a good tilt and gives her the ability to help support herself with her legs. It is also good for oral.
also try her on top with her supporting her upper body and you guiding her gently and smoothly.
the most important thing to remember is that a little foreplay will go a long way in getting her started (for some reason most women need warming up - compared to most guys who are able to reach orgasm faster). If you have her at the same point you are at - believe me you won't have as much difficulty finding the best position.
encourage her to continue with the playing so she doesn't lose that fire.
good luck!
2006-07-24 09:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by lady left the tramp 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe I'm answering this but her on top is good also with her on bottom if you are up some almost at a 90 degree angle she should like that too. Most prefer doggie but that doesn't always work. Try that again but with pillows under her for support so she can move her legs a little differently.
2006-07-24 09:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by pjthedj247 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should had not added a ? to your "question". I do agree with you, some men will do that, but not all. Depending a man would choose the slim type if it only involves a once in a life time sex. If a man were to choose a person to stay with for a while well they would think Twice about it. Of course this depends on the type of man. Also it sounds like you have something against over weight women.
2016-03-27 05:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Modified doggie style with her head lower than her hips, it is a good angle for penetration. Also can place a pillow under her belly in doggie position. This still allows for good penetration but is more comfortable for her. Alos doggie from a flat position seems to work for us. I lie flat on my stomach and he enters from behind. Normally he has to manuever a little to find the best position and will sometimes hold my legs to remind not to move from the position. Delightful! Another one to try is with her on top straddling you. To release pressure on her, she can gradually work herself into a sitting position. I start on my knees and then pull one leg at a time to a flat position, taking care not to disengage his penis. Lastly, I like it when he is standing and I am on the edge of the bed and he enters me that way. We have also tried my straddling him, with him on the edge. The best thing to do is experiment before you are both hot and heavy to find the best angles. Good luck!
2015-04-12 19:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl on top is probably the best since she can control how you penetrate her and is just generally the best position to try if you're having problems with penetration since it can be varied so many ways.
2006-07-24 09:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep experimenting with different positions until you find the best way.
One way that me and my husband did when I was 9 months pregnant was me laying on my back with him next to me on his side (just for grins, his right side), with his legs bent up towards my bottom (kind of the fetal position). My legs were flat over his thighs and he was entering me that way. I guess that would be a kind-of variation of the spooning method. Try looking up the Karma Sutra and it might be in there. I know that worked for us and it was easy for me and/or my husband to manually stimulate me and no pressure on any part of my body.
2006-07-24 09:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by brittme 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
she should take up yoga.. there is a great tape out there yoga for round bodies......
i'm obese and my favorites are missionary and this kind of sideways style that my husband gets between my legs as i lay on my side and does it to me that way..... try that one....
try bending her over the bed......she might have to stand on her tip-toes while you do your thing as she is bent over...
i think it is awesome that you are trying to find out ways to satisfy both of you......
2006-07-24 09:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I THINK EITHER PILLOWS OR A FOAM SWEDGE UNDER YOUR STOMACH HINEY IN THE AIR. BUT FIRST STROKE AND KISS AND SUCK ON BREAST....STROKE HER CLIT WITH FINGERS USE CLIT GEL. REV HER UP WITH A VIBRATOR. THEN PUT HER IN POSITION OF PLUMPED UP DOGGIE STYLE. STROKE HER CLIT MORE MAKE SURE ITS PEEKING OUT AT YOU. PENATRATE LET HER GRIND ON YOUR PENIS ALITTLE ASK HER ARE YOU CLOSE KISS HER BACK ASK HER SLOW OR FAST AND GO FOR IT..
2014-11-24 04:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋