me & my bf are both aries!?

Question

we are both aries so what can i expect out of the relationship. I've heard that it could work out and then i've heard that it can't sometimes. we get along great but i've noticed when we argue its always because we want to be right and we are too stubborn to let it go.

Answer 1

thats just a sign that u both get along

Answer 2

Aries and Aries

When two Aries come together in a love affair, there's bound to be fireworks. These two are always competing, which can make for quite a challenging love match. An Aries-Aries relationship is like looking into a mirror: Aries understands their partner's need for independence because they're the same way. At times, however, they can be possessive and turn into two Rams butting heads. They have to learn not to compete with one another so much. If they can do so, their partnership can be extremely powerful.

An Aries-Aries love match is a meeting of two strong spirits; generally, the relationship is positive and enthusiastic. They love to try new things -- often extreme sports or some other intense activity. Solving the inevitable problems of a close relationship can be tough due to the two egos constantly clashing. They must learn to work together. Since both partners like things to go their way, they must make a conscious effort not to be selfish. Aries also has a natural generosity, however, so two Aries together can certainly learn to take turns indulging each other. Aries is very open with their feelings; totally straightforward, two Aries will never have problems with deceit or hypocrisy. Both partners will have trouble with temper outbursts that result from hasty judgments. Aries just wants to get on with it, already!

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars. Mars was the God of War, and, like two soldiers in a battle, two Aries can either fight together or against each other -- but they will fight. Mars also represents passion, and Aries tends to have an active and exciting time with any lover. This energy is only heightened with another Aries. And, though arguments are inevitable for this pair, the best is yet to come -- first of all, Aries is too busy to hold a grudge for long, and besides, making up is so much fun!

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Same sign relationships are either GREAT or AWFUL. So beware! I am in a same sign marriage and at first, it was hard. I am a Virgo and have dated two other Virgos, my two most awful, shortest relationships ever 'cuz both were *******, but It didn't deter my love for Virgos and I married one! Go figure. Usually it works better if your birthdays are not around the same general time (IE one of you is an Early Aries and One a Middle or late Aries) So that's a great aspect already for you two.

Aries gets along OK with another Aries, but it's not the best match... (or worst either for that matter)

Aries with Aries:
This is a so-so match simply because they are both headstrong and fiery. Each will hold their ground in an argument, like bulldogs locked in combat, the outcome can sometimes be "relationship changing". However, if certain conditions exist in the chart, this need not be a bad match. A strong moon in either sign will overcome these problems, as the sheer power of their love will overcome any exchange of words.

aries and aries - astrological compatibility rank = 4 (10 is best)

If you are in one of these relationships, please try to be patient with your mate, and ask them to do the same for you. SLOW down, take things less extreme and you should get along fine.



ARIES goes with Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini and Aquarius (most compatible is Leo).

Best Match For Aries Is Leo
Aries has a fiery personality, and can be quite head strong. This can make them hard to match with other people, but also make them very passionate with some. Leo and Aries are perhaps the best of all matches, but if things go wrong and one betrays the other, it can get explosively ugly!

Worst Match For Aries is Cancer
Hardly a match made in heaven Aries and Cancer tend to clash. Do not despair if you are in one of these relationships, true love will overcome. Both Aries and cancer are powerful and very self expressive. However, Cancer can be sensitive and somewhat anxious while Aries people are dominant and spontaneous. Aries is not the greatest at expressing their feelings. This leads to the constant annoyance of the moody, retrospective Cancer.

Aries + Aries

Fire + Fire = Explosion

You are both very fiery individuals, and therefore ego clashes are quite likely to dominate your partnership if you’re unable to quell each other’s explosive temperament. On one level the combination of Aries with Aries is dynamic, bold and extremely exciting because both of you will wish to act upon the spontaneity and impulse of the moment. There’s a childlike innocence surrounding your love and friendship and it’s as if when you’re with each other your youth and childlike fun predominate, giving you plenty of joyful interaction and creative activity together. The great thing about the combination of Aries with Aries is that both of you will encourage each other in your work and social engagements. On the other hand too much independence, individually, may create rifts between you, giving rise to possessiveness at times.

Where your relationship has been built on an equal footing, the element of fire for both of you produces tremendous creativity, vision and industriousness. Your combined power and effort could well be a force to be reckoned with and if you’re both fortunate enough to find common ground and a unified vision and ideal in life, you can move mountains together and possibly even build an empire. In this exciting relationship of yours, both of you must learn to be more humble, thereby sublimating your egos in the service of each other. This is where the dynamic fire of Aries will generate tremendous love and passion between the two of you. You can’t always be right, so try a little harder to see things from the other’s perspective and this could, with time, become a great partnership.

You are best suited to an Aries born between the dates of 9 to 19 April as they are co-ruled by your luckiest planet Jupiter. Plenty of fire and brimstone should be anticipated if you hook up with those born between 21 and 30 March due to the Mars influence. If you make a go of it with an Aries born between the 31 March and 8 April you will experience a great deal of social and physical satisfaction with them due to the Sun’s influence.

Answer 4

My bf and I are both Aries too. It is the best relationship I have ever had. You can't overpower him and he can't overpower you. Actually, since we think so much alike I can't say we've ever really even had an argument. I'm a March Aries and he is an April one (they are usually a little different - kinda kooky, really.) I don't really believe too much in this stuff, but I read a great book called Sextrology. Most of what they said about our signs rang true and they are witty.

Answer 5

Any sign can be with any other sign! It all depends on your whole chart, based on your DATE, PLACE, EXACT TIME of birth, not just your Sun signs.

Your whole chart then is then compared to the other person's whole chart using a technique called Synastry.

The aspects between each other's planets and points must be looked at and interpreted. The planets in each others houses must be looked at and interpreted, both ways. Affinities must be looked for. It's not simple to a layperson, but it is to people who are educated in Astrology terminology.

Sun sign horoscopes are absolutely inaccurate to determine compatibility between two people.

More info:

Synastry link:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Affinity link:

http://www.thezodiac.com/room.htm

Aries is ruled by Mars, a Cardinal and Fire sign. Mars governs action, aggression, anger and fighting. The keyword for Mars is energy!

You Sun signs maybe conjunct by degree. I would need both sets of birth data to confirm that though. If they are, it is one reason why you both like to compete with one another.

Cafe Astrology's info on Sun conjunct Sun in Synastry:

http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_sun_aspects.html

Your overall characteristics and energy levels are very similar. You strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate appreciation and understanding of one another's essence exists between you, and this is vitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your relationship with one another is.

Answer 6

My husband, my son, and I are all three Aries, and we all have the same stubbornness. If you work at it, it can work out for you, but one of you will have to learn to give a little... It can be fun though...

Answer 7

i dated an aries for 4.5 years. was good, then went bad. like some do. don't put all your stock in the sun signs. if you're serious, get your charts done.

Answer 8

Both of you are independent individuals and you don't like feeling "owned" by anyone. Neither of you can tolerate being dominated or bossed by anyone else, so you probably make your own decisions, and direct your own lives. You respect one another's autonomy, and a relationship that is based on constant togetherness and dependency wouldn't suit either of you. Sometimes, however, there is too much emphasis on individualism rather than on being close and nurturing the relationship. You both have proud egos and are sensitive to criticism. Almost inevitably you will compete with each other, and in small doses this can be invigorating. But it easily becomes nasty, and one of you is likely to get hurt.

Both of you are assertive, emotionally self-sufficient individuals who respond with positive action, anger, or compulsive busyness whenever you are upset.

Often you deny or downplay any feelings of weakness, dependency, or neediness in yourselves or others. You expect yourself to "snap out of it" whenever you feel sad, low, or moody, and you're frequently impatient with others' emotional needs as well. This is not so bad when you are both feeling up, but when one of you is ill or feeling vulnerable, you may not get the comfort or support you need.

Both of you have a competitive spirit and may enjoy playing sports or other athletic activities together, but you can easily antagonize one another instead, and end up feeling like rivals rather than loving friends.

Both of you instinctively want to lead and don't compromise or take commands very readily. Having two "chiefs" in one household can be volatile at times!

Both of you, as individuals, possess a great deal of personal charm and appeal. You are able to attract love, opportunities, money and whatever you need in your lives rather easily. In fact, unless other factors in your charts indicate a capacity for effort and discipline, you may sail through life doing whatever comes easiest and depending a great deal on your "pretty face" or pleasing, likeable manner to get by.

The two of you share a great sense of aesthetics and taste, an appreciation for beauty, the arts, and the pleasures of life. A flair for the art of love, too, is a gift you share.

Each of you also has quite a bit of artistic potential and you can encourage and inspire this in each other. A focus on developing and expressing your creativity - together as well as individually - is apt to be one of the most fulfilling aspects of your relationship.

Both of you are highly romantic, passionate, warm, loving and decidedly sexual. Your inner drive is the motivating force in a relationship. You have lots of physical and sexual energy. However, you may have to slow down a little, otherwise you may tire quickly and burn yourself out.

The bonds of friendship and love that you have for each other run very deep. The strong intuitive rapport and very close emotional tie makes your friendship a permanent one. You share you most personal concerns with each other with relative ease, and these intimate shared experiences build a powerfully strong bond between you over time.

An unusually open, non-possessive, emotionally liberating relationship will naturally develop between you. Because you do not try to own one another, or to live up to some preconceived idea of how you should be together, you will both be free to express your true impulses and desires. The more you encourage one another to b free, the closer you will feel. One of the purposes of your relationship is to allow you both to experience a true friendship and connectedness which is not restrictive, binding, or possessive.

If you are looking for a placid, predictable relationship, then run the other way! This relationship brings lots of surprises. Both of you are exposed to completely new ideas and you explore creative, original ideas that you would otherwise never come across. Be wary of the tendency to be very impulsive when making joint decisions. Sometimes the two of you abruptly seize an opportunity, realizing later that you were swept away by the excitement and novelty of the idea, and the idea is not that practical or realistic.

You inspire, inflame, vitalize and energize one another and you can accomplish much together, but you can easily become overly zealous, even fanatical, in your pursuits. It is also likely that your objectives will sometimes be different and you will feel at cross-purposes with each other. You often end up in power struggles, being very competitive with each other, and trying to manipulate or dominate one another.

Your conversations are spirited and often exhilarating. You spark each other to view situations in a new light and you inspire creative, original ideas. This relationship inspires creativity and originality, and a fresh attitude towards life - and you should share a very interesting life - and you should share a very interesting life together.

Answer 9

I know you guys clash heads a lot. You both are probably stubborn? Take it slow.

Answer 10

you are able to work out any relationship with the same sign