Ok i'm 18 and i broke my virginity at 16 with a guy i wuz dating for 2 years, ok me and him broke up when i wuz 17. I have had sex with 6 other dudes, so all together i have had 7 sexual partners, does that make me hoe???
2006-07-24 09:12:02 · 20 answers · asked by sexichica 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no! you're not a hoe! and dont let anybody ever make you think that either. I know people have been saying you should be waiting for sex or to slow down, but your choice was to loose your virginity and now its normal for girls and guys to experiment. Just be safe!
2006-07-24 12:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tee Oh Are Eye 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
If you have had sex with 6 other guys within a 1 year period and you are doing it for your own pleasure (no care at all about the man) then you are probably having some issues with previous relationships or you just enjoy the feeling of sex.
Some girls that lose their virginity at a young age and then continue to sleep around with multiple partners may be addicted to sex. This of course can lead to many other more serious issues later in life, along with sexual transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies and not being able to settle down with one man to start a family.
If you are having issues with a previous relationship you need to do something to clear up that issue as soon as possible before the matter gets out of control. In either case, too much sex can be a bad thing, especially if you feel that you are a slot or a hoe.
2006-07-24 09:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is alot of partners for such a young girl. I am not dogging you, I know I have made mistakes but I know from experience that it was because I had a very low self esteem and not a very good father figure in my life. You should think about your self worth and your future. You dont want to go through life having regrets and ending up with the wrong person. Or worse, ending up with a disease or a baby that you cannot take care of. Just think before you act. Its not worth all the risks.
2006-07-24 09:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by momma2jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think there is such a thing. Those words are stupid words only used to hurt people. It doesn't matter if you have 2 or 20 partners, if you are taking care of yourself, and the people you are intimate with (i.e. using protection) there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. Don't let things get to the point though where you are feeling guilty, or regretful, or stop liking yourself, the key is to not loose left respect.
2006-07-24 09:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 people in a span of two years and 6 of those were within one year? Um, to some people that's considered being a "ho". To others it's an active lifestyle. Slow down and take care of yourself. Life is WAY too short to get VD and die cause you had sex with 7 people.
2006-07-24 09:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by blue suede shooz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about all the females those guys each have slept with and all the guys each of those females slept with and so on. No man wants to be with a woman who has had slept with so many different men in her life. In a man's eyes yes he would call you that. Right now you are 18, how many more boys/men are you going to lay up with before you get married? Right now you have a great chance of getting HIV from sleeping with all those guys because who is to know how many females they slept with and how many guys those females slept and it keeps going down hill. That's a lot of people.
2006-07-24 09:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ur not ur just the same as the person who only had sex once ur not a bad person we are human we all make mistakes including me. and ur not a hoe and don't u ever let anyone call u one either. i know for a fact ur not but u should probably not do it anymore u might caught something. but i'm sure ur a nice girl.
whoever said ewwww is mad cause they're not gettin none lol
2006-07-24 09:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by headbanger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, i dont think it matters how long youve been dating a guy--sex should be saved for marriage for more reasons than one. As for the actual question,I think it depends on the way you carry yourself as a young lady.Either way, you should take it slow; ask someone you know who has been through that and they will tell you the same thing.
2006-07-24 09:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by mizz benz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well once u have sex with someone its like u have sex all the people they had sex with. So i would first get tested.
It doesnt really make u a hoe, well yeah it kinda does but its your life. Just be safe.
2006-07-24 09:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by ChaneIsLuv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're just testing things out, as long as you use protection and i think you are just find...unlike some of these girls that break their virginity at 12 and 13 with some random guy and they be 18 with like 20 different sex partners at least you can still count on one hand...so i think you're just fine...good luck
2006-07-24 10:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Taquila (Celtics Fan) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋