you will forced to an arranged marriage?
2006-07-24 09:11:47 · 11 answers · asked by veryberry 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you don't have one, do you? if you do (that is sad) tell your parents your fellings. thats what i would do
2006-07-24 09:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by disco_dog 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
This is still a common form of marriage in today's global society.
Marriage has had many different social and economic strings attached to it. Originally, Marriage was a "Gift" from God uniting man, woman, and God in unity. Then marriage evolved into a union to increase families power and status'. Now, many in the Western culture base marriage off a concept of love; of which few have defined or understand.
Then marriage evolved into an economic benefit. This arrangement allowed royalty and commoners to expand their wealth and make alliances. However, the families typically would favor having the couple at least like each other so that this would facilitate the relations between the union. What sense dose it make to have a daughter marry the son of Duke if the daughter is going to be difficult to the son causing the relationship between the two families to sever and possibly cause war?
I guess I would need to determine why the families were forcing the marriage in today's global world, and once I determined this, I could agree to agree with my family or plot ways to foil their evil dreams.
2006-07-24 09:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not know where you are from, but where ever it is in the world, do not let anyone force you into a marrage. Are you going to live with the person, or the person that is forceing you to get married. Suggestion: Ask the person who is forceing you to get married to marry the person, if they think that person is so good.
2006-07-24 09:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by batista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know anyone who's dumb enough to try to run my life for me like that.. I'm not exactly the sort of person who copes well with being controled.
But for the sake of arguement, to bide my time while discussing things with a lawyer, I'd probably start talking about genetic problems in the family... develop a split personality... develop a very expenisive taste in everything... act like a sleaze with everyone but him... Make myself into exactly what he didn't want...
2006-07-24 09:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There would not be alot that I could do! I would probably just go with it. Then I would sit around until I died wondering what else is out there. Where I would be if I got a choice of who I married. Unless I liked him!!!
2006-07-24 09:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by [[baby girl]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im assuming your in India. The best advice I could say is flee the country. Easier said than done, I know.....but I would.
2006-07-24 09:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm honey, this is America and no one can force anyone to do anything.
2006-07-24 09:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by april_hwth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with april_hwth
2006-07-24 09:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away.
2006-07-24 09:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by urbantiger1294 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly there's probably nothing you can do... and you don't want to run away.
2006-07-24 09:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by gummi bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt allow it
2006-07-24 09:15:21 · answer #11 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋