2006-07-24 08:55:56 · 32 answers · asked by NiNi 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You let Time heal your heart. Cherish the fun memories...carry with you any lessons you learned...and don't dwell too much on the hurt or what you feel you've lost...what matters is what lies ahead and it WILL get easier...
Sorry you are hurting...'most all of us have been there in some way or another...part of the risk we take in loving, is risk of hurting...I wouldn't give up the love to never have the pain though...the love is too wonderful...
Peace be with you...
2006-07-24 09:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I just read or I watch a funny show. That will work for like the time that you are doing it... If you like you can invite a friend over your house and then the two of you can do guy free activities like do you hair and nails and makeup. Just be sure the friend you invite doesn't have a new partner that they want to talk to you about, it might bring you down. Another thing you can do is go out alone and have me(alone) time. If you run into a friend say you are very busy if you don't want to talk. If you do then ask him/her to join you. Maybe you just need to get out and date another person. find someone but take it at a pace you feel is right. If they don't want to wait for you they aren't good enough for you. Also remind yourself of the good things you have in you life whether they be memories or items and anything inbetween; i should probably help you. Good luck! I hope you feel better!
2006-07-24 09:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Keys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away as possible. If you don't do this, then everytime you see that person again you will start thinking about them all of the time again. It is very good to have friends around as often as possible, so that you don't get too lonely. Keep yourself busy. Go out and get a part time job or start taking some classes. Find some hobies and other things to keep you busy. If you are really busy, then you won't have much time to think about how much pain you are in. It always helps to go out with the girls and meet some boys. No one is saying to get into a relationship again, but it will def. boost your confidence if guys/girls are flirting with you. You need to feel good about yourself and realize that as heart broken as you are now, it will get better. You deserve to feel normal again and you have to allow yourself to do that. whatever you do, try not to be alone and bored because this is when your mind can really do some damage to you if you don't watch out.
You are a good person! You deserve Happiness!!
2006-07-24 09:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by molliey2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never believed in the term broken heart until my mother died. Then I know that mine did. I even felt an ache in my chest alot. Not the heart attack kind, but just a dull sad ache. The only thing that helps is time. I prayed for time to pass. Now it has been almost 13yrs and I still miss her, but I can live my day to day life.
2006-07-24 09:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In every broken heart there is a lesson to learn. Figure out what the lesson was with this person and try to close the door. Your time in the present and future is where your focus needs to be.
Don't fret too much, broken hearts heal.
2006-07-24 09:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that your heart is broken! It just takes TIME. How do you make time go faster? Get busy. Occupy your time with other things, take up a hobby, take a class, do anything but sit idle. You'll see that as time goes by, the hurt will begin to subside.
2006-07-24 09:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by ms_ggirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. It's like mourning a death. Just stay busy. Try to go out with friends. The busier you are, the less you will think about it.
It'll hurt in the beginning, but one day you'll look back and it won't hurt as bad.
Good Luck.
2006-07-24 08:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing is time,i know because my son is nursing a broken heart right now,and every once in awhile something jogs his memory of something they have done or a place and on comes the water works....no really time and keeping busy.
2006-07-24 11:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by mschicky58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know im not a ladie but some whores are probably going to tell so some dumb **** like "to get over one get on another" or something like that... dont listen, time will heal, even if it might take a very long time, just depend on time and get on with what you like to do and if everything you like to do involves him, make a new hobby like shooting a big gun, or camping or hiking..... it will help.. thats how i got over my x girl
-- and dont listen to thje peolpe that say party.... i took that advise and two drunkin years later i didn't feel any better, just find something that makes you happy ( or even just forget for a couple minutes) and carry on
2006-07-24 09:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by Big J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-24 08:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋