She is consistently betraying me and very very annoying. I just want to let her down easily without hurting her feeling!!! Any suggestions?
2006-07-24 08:42:37 · 11 answers · asked by luvinmjc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't not hurt her feelings. She won't get it. Just tell her that it is not working out and that you deserve to be treated better that you have tried to treat her with respect and she only repays you by betraying you. Tell her that you do not wish to surround yourself with such a draining relationship. If a person is draining you then they are not your friend.
2006-07-24 08:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
Be honest first of all. I wouldn't just try to get rid of her by ignoring her. You could tell her that you needed space for a while. I wouldn't necessarily confront her in an accustory way saying "You're a terrible person, it's a wonder I've put up with you this long..." but let her know that you've changed or she's changed...and the friendship just isn't healthy or working for you. Some people are toxic in a relationship...and it's best just to make a clean break. But this is what I would avoid doing: I would avoid just telling her off and hanging up on her.
2006-07-24 08:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by laney_po 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end the friendship, she's not worrying about hurting your feelings by betraying you. With a friend like that, who needs an enemy?
2006-07-24 08:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do it slowly or quickly. If you dont mind putting in the time to slowly move away from her then just tell her flat out in a final confrontation " LOOK BIATCH IM JUST NOT INTO YOU" tell her you dont wanna hang out with no fatties anymore, that you are improving yourself and the end result dont include no sidekick.
or you could just slowly stop doing things with her, be busy alot, start spending time with new friends. make a list of excuses and keep them by the phone so you are never stuck with no excuse when she calls.
2006-07-24 08:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by kess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her tha "sorry ii have no time 4 u now ii have a lot of work 2 do in the house like clean it up go shopping n everything...so ii might not have time 4 u....."[in a very sweet way]......buh u r really lieing 2 her.....n don't talk 2 her n forget her...when she calls dont pick up n when she comes 2 ur house dont open the door....n when she ask's u say ii waz not home......will thiz work??.......
*try my advice*..
2006-07-24 10:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to pull away from her slowly, don't talk to her as much if you don't have to, and put as much space between you and her as possible!!! And if that doesn't work, just come straight out and tell her that she's bugging you, and you really want her out of your hair!!!! (But probably in nicer terms than that!!!) Good luck... I hope it works out!
2006-07-24 08:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her this: look I know we have been friends for the longest times but i think it is time we move on who knows we may become friends in the future but until now it is time so say good bye. Good luck
2006-07-24 08:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! Well, I guess you should just tell the truth her face-to-face. It's a bad idea to dump a friend but if it's what you think is best, go for it; we all grow old and grow apart, i guess....
2006-07-24 08:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to her or taking her calls
2006-07-24 08:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by jpcbbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to them just one day ignore her.She'll get it
2006-07-24 08:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by Angelina T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋