When you do it to a boy who isn't a virgin does it hurt even though he thinks you're not one and he does it to you like you're not a virgin
2006-07-24 08:27:40 · 19 answers · asked by jazzyjas_45 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Of course the first time you have sex, it may hurt a little or be uncomfortable, but if you have to lie about whether or not you're a virgin, you're probably not ready to have sex. Wait as long as you can, date around, and find someone worth giving yourself to. Once you have sex, you can't take it back, it will change you forever. Just concentrate on school, friends, sports, or whatever your niche' is in life and save yourself for your husband. That's the best answer I can give you. Love yourself, cause that boy doesn't love you, he only wants what's between your legs, then he'll bail out. Cherish your body, treat it as your temple.
2006-07-24 08:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to lie and say your not a virgin, ur not ready. Just wait and find someone who respects the fact that your a virgin and is worth giving it to. Being a virgin is a good thing. I lost mine at 15 and had a baby at seventeen. If it wasnt for my daughter id wish i was still a virgin, and the guy i lost it too................SO NOT WORTH IT. So just wait okay. And yes the first time does hurt no matter what.
2006-07-24 08:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you are a virgin makes no difference if the guy is too rough. It's your body so speak up and say take it slow and easy--he doesn't have to know you are a virgin just that you like to be treated gently!
2006-07-24 08:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES it hurts the first time no matter what the guy thinks/does(you may bleed too)! If he does not know it's your first he may not 'Go Easy' & just 'Go To Town' which will hurt more! Just tell him to SLOW DOWN! If you tell him what you want (& what feels good for you) then it makes it sooooooooooo much better!
TELL HIM EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT! Don't be afraid to talk about what YOU like, sometimes that even turns them on!
2006-07-24 08:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by gina2sly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?
if you are a virgin, most likely boys/men should know the difference, save that precious virginity of yours!!!
2006-07-24 08:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by Kryztal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to know you're a virgin because when you have sex with him you're going to bleed because he will pop your cherry.
2006-07-24 08:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kris S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, listen, if your going to have sex and your guy doesn't no your a virgin, bad idea! and, it'll be tough for you and him... just don't go and give yourself...! i mean it... and yea it'll hurt if he puts u on a higher level than what ur at
2006-07-24 08:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your first time it will hurt no matter what he thinks, I suggest you tell him because it will be very awkward if you dont. Its best to do it with someone your very comfortable with because it can be embarrasing the first time. you will bleed.....it can get messy
2006-07-24 08:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of question is that? You should be asking your Mommy these questions and save the "do it to" comments for when you are MUCH older.
2006-07-24 08:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot be truthful forget about it! Save it for that perfect man that you marry.
2006-07-24 08:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Becky H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋