I have been best friends with this girl for four years( so I thought). When I got married last year.,she was in my wedding. This year, she got married, told me she wasn't having attendants, when I got to the wedding, she had 3 bridesmaids and a maid of honor. I am very hurt, do I mention this? or just ignore it? Do I continue being friends? I could have handled the truth more than being lied to. Why did she do this?
P.S I live out of town, thats why I dint figure it out, until the wedding
She didnt even invite me to the Bachleorette Party, and I am the one that introduced her to her now husband!!~
2006-07-24 08:05:08 · 4 answers · asked by theycallmesassypants 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say, get over it and still be her friend. Your living out of state has put miles between your friendship. Although yes honesty would have been best on her part. But as adults you should be able to discuss how hurt it made you feel and move on as friends.
It is just easier to have bridesmaid and main of honor that live closer to you and can help you out more. My best friend got married and I too lived in another state. She was my maid of honor and her daughter was the brides maid. But to be honest, when she selected other girls for the wedding party at first my feelings were hurt, but got over it. As long as they were there to help her and get her wedding day off to a perfect start I got over it and truly was happy to watch her walk down the isle :)
2006-07-24 08:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, she's the one with the problem.
2006-07-24 15:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by bobemac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not worth your time.. I would move on without her in my life.
2006-07-24 15:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by prawn_headed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your happy where you are in life and she is too, don't sweat it, just be happy she's happy and keep on keepin' on with your life
2006-07-24 15:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Eye of Innocence 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋