WOW, GREAT QUESTION. FIRST LIFE EXPERIENCE HAS SHOWN ME BOTH. SOMETIMES GO WITH MY FEELINGS, AND SOMETIMES GO WITH MY INSTICT OF WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO. HOWEVER THIS ISN'T THE REAL DELIMMA. THE REAL PROBLEM IS DECIDING WHEN TO GO WITH ONE OR THE OTHER. YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF DEEPLY AND HONESTLY(BRUTALLY HONEST) DO YOU REALLY LOVE THEM BOTH? BECAUSE TRUE LOVE FOR A WOMAN IS FOR ONLY ONE WOMAN. IT IS SO DEEP AND SPECIAL THAT ONLY ONE WOMAN CAN FULFILL IT, DEFINE IT, BE IT. THE MORE LIKELY SITUATION IS THAT BOTH WOMEN HAVE SOMETHING ABOUT THEM THAT YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU SHOULD SEEK IS THE ONE WOMAN THAT HAS BOTH OR ALL OF THOSE QUALITIES ROLLED INTO ONE PERSON. THAT WILL BE TRUE LOVE. IT'S QUITE POSSIBLE THAT YOU ARE JUST IN LUST WITH ONE AND IN LOVE WITH THE OTHER. YOU SHOULD THINK LONG AND HARD ABOUT THAT AND THEN MAKE YOUR DECISION, BECAUSE HAVING MORE THAN ONE WOMAN AT A TIME(ESPECIALLY FOREVER,AS IN MARRIAGE) NEVER WORKS.
2006-07-24 07:49:00
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answered by joe m 2
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Go for the one you think is best for you. Or you can follow your instinct. Feelings change.
2006-07-24 07:43:48
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answered by redd_apples 2
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WHY is there a difference between your feelings and your instinct???
That's confusing to me -
2006-07-24 07:40:42
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answered by Triddine 3
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I don't remember what category your question is in. But no matter what, a good quote works in every situation.
When dealing with others, deal from the heart. When dealing with yourself, operate with the head.
2006-07-24 07:42:28
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answered by ••Mott•• 6
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