I just wanna know does sex hurt the first you do it? How many of you already have?

Answer 1

It depends on a number of things: For me, it didn't hurt, because I broke my hymen horseback riding when I was younger, and my boyfriend at the time was gentle and we had gone very slowly in the sexual course of our relationship, so I was prepared and comfortable.

However, the tightness and discomfort felt by some during initial sexual intercourse can be influenced by other things than the presence of a hymen or a gentle guy; from if you're comfortable (then you won't tense up) down to if you're a regular tampon user (in which case you'll be a little more physically used to things being vaginally inserted)

For some specific facts that aren't anatomical jargon or psychobabble, the below article may be helpful. In fact, I recommend www.scarleteen.com for general down-to-earth sexual information.

Answer 2

the reason for sex hurts for the first time cause it tears some of your skin. that's why you bleed a little after words like if you go to the bathroom. but after you start having sex. It wont hurt as much because he already tore you. But just because your having sex. doesnt mean you cant enjoy it. just because he gets some fun out of it you should too. but the only time sex will hurt if the guy is doing it to hard then it will hurt. and if you had sex and you did it again the next day. you will be a little sore.

also if you havent had sex in a long time. It will also hurt. just a little bit because you will be very tight.

You shouldnt have sex just becuase someone wants you too or its the cool thing. Because once you give that away you cant get it back. make sure the guy your husband or boyfriend respects you. You have the power to say how you want. what you dont like and if you want to stop. Yah he will get a little mad but its your body.

make sure you have prtection and the person your with respects you as a person and not just a sex budie. I always think You should have sex when you get married. but everyone is different.

be smart about it and just dont get crazy. always use a condom and be on the pill if you want to be active.

Answer 3

I wouldn't exactly say hurt its more of a good hurt or a little uncomfortable. You just need to make sure your aroused enough and wet so it doesn't hurt too much. Just make sure you have play around a little before you try to have sex and you can always use a lubricant.

Answer 4

It hurts for some girls, and not others. There is a myth that every girl has a hymen, but any medical professional will tell you that is not always true. You also can't tell just by the hymen if a girl has had sex.

For me, it hurt a little, but not a lot. I didn't bleed. I barely noticed, but thats just me :)

Answer 5

i wouldnt know because i am going to wait until im married and i think you should too unless your already married then go ahead but your making a big mistake!!! what if you end up pregnant!!! then your life will really be screwed up and even if you dont you'll live with regret because if there is a guy who is sexually pure and you arent he's not going to stay with you because he's waited for the right person!!! so think before you do anything!! beleive me my sister got pregnant she was 20 but she was going to school and she had a great life set up for her and she had to quit and now she has to start all over and she really regrets that but we love the baby but its sad that she wasnt planned!!!

Answer 6

I have helped a couple virgins get introduced to sex.Through trial and error, I have found ways to do it to lessen the pain. If you are with someone experienced and loving, it will not hurt as much. If you are with a boy, YES! It will HURT.

Answer 7

how old are you?If I was you I would wait but noone told me what to do either,and I ended up married at 15. But, if the boy loves you he will wait for you if your not ready. And oh yeah depending on his size it may hurt quite alot.

Answer 8

never bothered me like what all the other peeps are saying it was a most enjoyable sensual feelings the first time never felt the same the second and the third time like the very first time !

Answer 9

#1 it's depends if you love that person u are going to be u not gonna fill tha mach,if u ganna be whit someone u dont love, u not ganna fell the same way, o and other thing get proteccion befor u have sex whit yuor borfriend or friend?

Answer 10

Honey... you need to talk to your mom about this kind of stuff... the internet, especailly chat rooms and answer sessions, aren't known for having the best/most true information...