2006-07-24 07:33:41 · 14 answers · asked by backstreetboys2205 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Yes, you should always test drive a car before buying it.
2006-07-24 08:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by lignebur72 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the individuals' mentalities and maturity. I know that I would never just marry someone without at least a few test drives. Too many times, throughout history, people end up saddled with someone who isn't phsyically or sexually compatible with them.
I'd personally rather find out before I'm married to them. Divorce and marriage are a bigger deal than "viriginity" and all that. I'd rather know for sure that i'm compatable with someone than feel trapped in a lackluster marriage because I don't believe in divorce.
And maybe next time you could type out a question as if you know SOME of the English language. Reading your question was like someone scratching nails against my brain. It's not hard to speak or write intelligently, you should give it a try!
2006-07-24 14:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the best way to go about it if your worried about it is to wait to have sex until your in love.
in my experience. if you have sex before your for sure in love and a committed relationship then it just clouds and complicates things and it hurts alot more if things don't work out.
if you hold off until your in a commited relationship and in love, if it ends then at least you know for yourself that you didn't just do it with anyone and that you really did love them when you did.
when you get married i hope you have great sex for the rest of your life. and if you really truly love each other for everything and whoever they are then i believe you will.
its the love that matters not the sex. keep taht in mind
2006-07-24 14:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sex b4 marrge has both afects(advantage &disadvant).if had nt sex before mar. uhave a fresh excitemnt & tremendous attraction 2ward ur partner untill u get 5& six month.if u had sx before then u wil be think wisely not emotionaly 2 ur situation after marriage .sex is not only single thing that happens in life.and initial months of ur life leads ur whole life circumstances.
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2006-07-24 14:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by viju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...God forbit if you and the woman you marry are just two pieces of a puzzle that just don't fit with each other. Better to know before hand for sure.
2006-07-24 14:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by birdsfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you will both be comparing each other to other people when you do it. And you will wonder if you're as good as the people your partner has been with all the while. So just wait.
2006-07-24 14:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it matters....i cant think f anything worse than 2 virgins getting married and finding out they are not compatible in bed....what a horrid idea of a marriage and a dismal existence....
2006-07-24 14:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by susuze2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and I did, and we've been married for 6 years. But we had already decided on marriage when we did what we did.
2006-07-24 14:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Cheyenne J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I TOTALLY DISAGREE WITH MOJO! That is horrible. It says in the bible that you need to wait until you are married. And, God is always right, is he not? So, my answer is it is VERY wrong.
2006-07-24 14:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by wormwoodkid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it matters about how much you love the person
and someone answered that you need to look in the bible?
thats really dumb lol
do what you want! ;)
2006-07-24 14:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by ashlynn2018 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋