how come ppl older than u think "u shouldnt be in love, ur too young" im 13!! i think i am!! when i told my cousin (18 yrs old) that i was in love she said "love at your age is cute, but not real" i believe in young love. youngins love jus as hard as adults, do u agree???
2006-07-24 07:33:31 · 16 answers · asked by AMARI J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Young love is more dramatic and immature then mature love...the thing about being in love when your 13 is that you really think its love but once you get to be 23-25 you look back on that time..if u can even remember and laugh because of how you acted...Your cousin shouldn't downplay your feelings or your emotions because they can be real but I guess once you get to be older..im 23 you look back and just kinda shrug off what you had and you come to realize that it was more infatuation then love...when you get married and wanna commit your entire life to someone..thats love. And please please please remember that Sex isn't love! and no matter what a guy says just because he "loves" you doesn't mean you should sleep with him...if a guy really loves you he will wait as long as it takes...that right there proves what love is...Actions speak louder then words.
2006-07-24 07:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
U think ur love is real, but love is different when u get older. I told a guy I loved him when I was 13 once, turned out I lied. Ten years later I told another guy I loved him too, turned out I was drunk. I told him again six months later, totally sober, so yeah, it was the truth. But looking back on it now, I still love the second guy, but not like I loved him when I told him the first time. That term has different meanings the older a person gets. In my opinion, if the love is real and true, then u'll only leave 'em when u die. But I'm sure one day u won't love ur mate anymore, and y'all will break up. EVen 18 year-olds do this, and even older folks do this. LOVe has so many different meanings; so just concentratae on the meaning u give it now, and remember that older folks give the same word a deeper meaning.
2006-07-24 07:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be in love? yes, however love at age 13 is a total different type of love than that at age 20, for example. Love at 13 is a very emotional based love and as a result doesn't have the stability of love as an adult. Life experiences change your perspective on your own life as well as that of the one you love as you grow older. No matter what you do you will see things differently in a matter of months and differently again within the next year. You will see your love as a changed person and you may or may not like what you see. It doesn't matter now anyway. Be happy with being in love today. Tomorrow will take care of itself.
2006-07-24 07:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't agree. At your age, I thought the same way. We all do. And when you get older, you realize that love involves much more than just romance and that mushy feeling you get for someone. It involves patience, because you have to put up with the other person's ways, and it's not always going to be fun, but at your age, when you get tired of the person, you dump them and move on. That's not real love, hun. So go read a book, do some school shopping, or do your nails or something. (By the way, I'm 21 and single, and I don't even know what love is.)
2006-07-24 07:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I loved one person from 3rd grade to 7th grade, when he died. My love for him was more of a "best friend" love. Were he still alive, I doubt we'd be anything more than friends. After middle school, we probably would have gone to different high schools and everything would have changed. My love for him was definitely real, but it's not the same love as what I will feel for someone now that I am older. I'm 25 now...and I have yet to experience true love.
2006-07-24 07:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by SassySours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are lookin' out for you. There is infatuation, there is lust. And without the experience these may be mistaken for love. But by the time you figure that out you are 15 with a kid and no chance to fufill your lifes ambition. You will have dropped out of school and be working as a waitress and possibly having your parents or someone helping you raise the child that you thought you were adult enough to make. I'm not diggin' on you honey. I'm speaking from experience. There is no rush. With love comes pain and alot of it.
2006-07-24 07:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by cabinfeverjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young love is just that, young love. It cannot be as deep or as long-lasting as love between older people because at thirteen you can't know who you are yourself, or what you love in someone else. If you end up getting married and growing old together, obviously it worked out, but on the whole, I think love-at-first-sight works out better than young (or "puppy") love. Good luck.
2006-07-24 07:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young love is real because i am 15 n i am in love with my boyfriend n older people think we do not know what love is because we are young.
2006-07-28 10:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Mis.Jones 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about others opinions. Enjoy the love you have right now. You only get that first love once. And it is the most delicious feeling. Just be smart about it....and share it only with your love. No need for others telling you it isn't real. It is real to you.
Be happy.
2006-07-24 07:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young love is real, but not be as deep as older love. Just worry about your own love and disregard, for now, what anyone tell you.
2006-07-24 07:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋