Im 15 years old nd I think im Pregnant!! What do I Do??

Question

Im 15 years Old nd My bf ((which is 18)) nd I had Sex but the Condom Brok!! Nd I think i might be Pregnant!! I dont want 2 tell my mom bc she will KILL me if she found out that i was having sex for one nd if i told her that i might be Pregnant nd if my sisterz find out OMG i dont even want 2 go in2 that but My bf nd I dont no wat 2 do cuz the we went to the Planned Parenthood place nd they wouldnt giv me a pill bc u hav 2 be 18 or sum crap nd I asked my Doctor if i could go on Birth Control but he said that my mom has 2 sign sum paper so i hav her permishion 2 go on it nd i cant do that bc i dont want my mom 2 no that im having sex.......But the other thing is is that i want 2 hav a kid!! i dont no im just so0o confuzed......... HELP ME!!!

Answer 1

Sweetheart I know you don't want to hear this but you have to talk to your parents. This is not a joke. I was 17 when I got pregnant and I'm telling you that you will need all the help you can get. You're parents will be upset but if you are pregnant & your boyfriend leaves you who will help you. If one of my boys got someone pregnant & I have a 15-year-old son so it is a near possiblity, I would want to know. I hope that you aren't pregnant but either way you should talk to your parents about this. And trust me, having a kid is no picnic. Not to mention if you are afraid to speak with your parents honey you ain't ready to be one.

Answer 2

Whatever you do, don't have an abortion - you will regret it forever if you do. You can be scared and still make the right choices. My mom got pregnant with me before she was married and her family was really upset when she told them, but she DID tell them. They eventually got over their upset-ness, though and they have been such great influences in my life. By and by my mom had me and my dad married her - and here I am and I am SO thankful that she didn't abort me!!! I would suggest telling your mom, she could get REALLY mad for a while, but you are her kid, and if she would be mad to know that you were having sex, then she probably cares alot about you (which is more than some people can say), and things can't get much more confusing or terrible then they are, and more than likely she will be able to help you out if you decide to keep the baby and your boyfriend leaves. It's not like she (your mom) can do anything to stop you from doing what you already did now, so the only thing she can do is help you (and get mad - but that will fade). As for your sisters, they will know sooner or later and if they are nasty to you, you can just ignore what they say and/or you can use the opportunity to let them know that they do not want to do things how you did them, but that you are going to keep the baby and they will have a new niece/nephew. It could be a task, but one I think you are up to! It is a little life inside of you - just take time to practice your skills on other people's babies and grow in your love for the life growing in you!

Answer 3

Talk to your parents. Say you really are pregnant (100% sure). They're going to find out either from your pregnancy symptons, your increasing belly, or if they're that slow, maybe they won't realize till your in labor having the baby. I'd say, the earlier, the better! The longer you wait, the worse it is. Your mom has been through pregnancy (obviously.. unless your adopted). She could help you. Of course, any mother of a pregnant teen would be mad, if not furious. But she's your mother. She'll help you out. You can discuss options. There's keeping the baby and raising it (costly, mind you). Abortion (which I'm against but it's an option). Or giving it up for Adoption. Next time, you should really wait before having sex. 15 is entirely too early. I'm 15, and I know I should wait (not that I would want to have it now anyways). Next time, think of CONSEQUENCES (aka, AIDS, STDs, Pregnancy, etc). Just remember.. either way.. your parents WILL find out. I think it's best if they hear it from you, not your nosy neighbor or your best friend!

Answer 4

ok first of all. no u dont have to have ur parents permission t o get on birth control. oh wait. nvm. in texas u dont have to. but it should be confidential between u and the dr. dont get an abortion. wait a few more days and take another test. noo offence but idk what an 18 yr old is doing with a 15 yr old. u better hope ur not pregnant cuz he can go to jail for rape and all that crap that goes along with being with someone under age. but plz dont have an abortion. thats the worst thing u could possibily do. when the baby is a week old, it has its own identity already, like his finger prints and stuff. i thought i was preg. also so i went to planned parenthood and they gave me a pamplet about abortion cuz i was also considering it, but once i looked at it, i quickly changed my mind. how could i kill something so precious and wonderful that i had made? i just couldnt do it. but i let my nerves get to me and think i was pregnant but it turns out i wasnt. if u think u r and then worry about it, u prolly wont get ur period till later, thats what happened to me. but if u r, have it and take care of it or give it up for adoption. but make sure u and ur bf agree on it. i wish u the best of luck.

Answer 5

Just take a test and see you might not be but if you are then what you should do is just sit your mom and and explain to her how you feel and all that and just tell her she will be happy after awhile. And it's your choice don't give your baby away if you don't want to it's up to you it's your body and your baby not anyone elses. But it's not easy raising a baby i'm 18 and still in school and i have many sleepless nights it's tiring and frusterating.

Answer 6

You're probably right that your Mom will get really mad at you--but she also loves you. Her anger will eventually go away and you need her help now. I suggest you get some courage and tell her, so that she can support you.

Then, get tested for preganancy. If you are pregnant, your baby needs you to stay healthy, so that it can be born. You have options other than an abortion.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Here's what you do: You stop having sex and act your own age. You're 15, you're barely old enough to have a job, not old enough to drive, not old enough to have a house, not old enough to vote and yet you think you're old enough to have sex. Wow. You know what? You're still a kid yourself and now you're having your own kid. Give it up for adoption. Do NOT have an abortion. Your baby shouldn't have to die because you made a mistake. Give it up for adoption. There are tons of people in this world who would give anything to have a child. And another thing, learn how to spell. And is not spelled Nd.

Answer 8

well drink sum vinergar or take a pregnacy test did the condom brake while he was inside you
every one on here need to shut the f#%k up cuz they know they was doing the same thign when they was young while they tryna put u down dont worry bout dem

Answer 9

well first of all you should tell your mom she should know she is going to be upset but let her have her moment to yell, scream, and cry but eventally she will suck it up if she cares about you she will direct you and tell you what to do listen to her because a mother knows best. i am not saying that because i am a mother because i am not i am younger than you i am 14 years old and me and my family already had a talk to me about if i ever become pregnant and i think its time for your mom to have one of the serious talk to you in your life don't have an abortion or do not give it up for adoption just let your boyfriend take care of it. if he does not want to take care of it put him on child support than leave him because if he does not want to take care of a child he brung into the world than he is not a good man trust in god and leave it up to him you will be alright he will never put more on you than you can bare.

Answer 10

see thats why i dont have sex... but anyways... tell your mom !!!she will be pissed at first... but she wont kill you... she might help... or not.. b/c i dont know you mom ... but all i have to say is go and talk to her.. good luck=]]