wat should i do?

Question

my boyfriend of 2 years has got me pregant. im 7 months pregant now and he just broke up with me cause he doesnt want to be a father to this baby should i not even have the baby now or should i haave cuz im afraid my child nots gonna grow up wit a father wat should i do

im only14

Answer 1

KEEP YOUR BABY.....UNLESS YOU CANT PHYSICALY TAKE CARE OF IT......YOU DONT NEED THE FATHER , HE CANT JUST DECIDE TO NOT BE A DAD , YOU CAN PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT AND HE HAS TO HELP YOU. WOMEN ARE STRONGER THAN THEY KNOW.....HE WILL BE SORRY LATER ON DOWN THE ROAD.
GOOD LUCK !! STAY STRONG !! AND BE THERE FOR YOUR BABY EVAN THOUGH THE FATHER IS NOT.

Answer 2

I had my son when I was 14 too. You will be okay with out him as long as you have your family you will be okay. I let my son's father when I was 17. Now I am 21 almost 22 with a wonderful 7 year old boy and a fiance that is a wonderful step father. It will be hard, but you can do it. Also stay in school and do to college. I dropped out after I got pregnant and then went back and got my GED and went to college, still not done with college. You can also give the baby up for adoption, but it is up to you. You need to think long and hard about what you want to do. Ask teen mothers that have kept there babies and ones that have given them up for adoption. This is going to be the hardest thing you will ever do, but it is up to YOU what you make of yourself. Good luck. You can email me if you want [e-mail].

Answer 3

Wow. If only people would wait until they were married to have sex. You obviously are scared and I don't blame you even though I think people should wait until marriage to have sex. If you're scared, then just give it up for adoption. There are sooo many people these days who would give anything to have a baby. Please, do not have an abortion. Your child shouldn't have to die just because you made a mistake. Your baby is innocent and doesn't deserve to be killed. Alot of crazy weirdos on here would tell you that live begins after birth but that is soooo not true. Your baby is a living human that doesn't deserve to die.

http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/channel/inthewomb/images/gallery_beauty.jpg (This is what your baby looks like right now, and anyone who says that's not a human is an idiot)

Please don't have an abortion. Either keep the baby or give it up for adoption. Good luck!

Answer 4

Well I have been thru the same thing when I got pregnant with my son... And the only advice to you is go with your heart cause just because he won't own up to his responsibilty that doesn't mean that you have to ignore the fact that you have a living soul in you that will need you to the end of time.. You will soon be a mother. And just because he has decided to stop wanting to be a father to your unborn child before the child is even in this world that doesn't mean that you should STOP being A MOTHER... Cause like I told myself 7 years ago ONE MONKEY DON"T STOP NO SHOW... Think about it.... Cause this happens to the best of them... You are not alone...

Answer 5

It's too late to safely have an abortion now. Your baby is old enough to live outside your body, and it isn't safe for you either, at this point in the pregnancy. If you don't think you can raise your child responsibly, then give it up for adoption. If you want to keep your baby, take it's father to court and make him pay child support. He will have to pay, even if he doesn't want to be there for his child.

Answer 6

Times get rough sometimes and people can take advatage of you. Don't let them. You can be much stronger than you think. Don't give up the baby, have it. If you decide not to keep it, then put it up for adoption. I am a women looking for adopting. I am unlucky enough no the have children and am always looking for an agency to accept my husband i to adopt. If you do decide to put in adoption, remember you child will be taken care of. Believe. Me.

Answer 7

omg how old are you? well i am alsomnot surprised that he did that because guys are usually afraid of commitment and they problably feel that they are scared because they don't want to have responsiblilties but i thinkthat as long as you are not a smoker drinker or a night time partyer than you should commit yourself 120% to this new born becasue we have to many people in this world that have children and they grow up living on the streets if you need more advice email me pls and i will be glad to help you [e-mail] hope you do the right thing make sure you give it lots and lots of love

Answer 8

Have the baby bc it would be nasty if you were to get an abortion..The father of the baby cant stay outa the babys life! There is a law..and plus if he were to leave you he would have to pay child support! so ither way he is still in the life of the baby!

Answer 9

my boyfriend and me weren't sure about having a baby and we ended up having her but it wasn't until he saw her that he started to do the right thing and be a good boyfriend and father!! just make sure this is what you want before you do this it's alot of work and time so if your not ready for all of this you can always give it to someone that wants a baby. in the end it's up to you not the dad!!

Answer 10

OMG:

I can not believe anyone will do that to some one you should put him on trail you should put him on child support because he helped make the baby if he did not want one he should ofnot did what he did you did not ask for it you should not take care of it by yourself you should tell him if you do not have a relationship its fine but he will be apart of the child he help brung into the world youshould go to court make sure he is apart of his life he should be apart its not all your fault you are trying but he is not.

Answer 11

just because he doesnt want to be the father he is still going to no matter what he does. if u have the baby with him or not he still has to pay support and if he is a good guy then he will come back
hope for the best.