im 18 yrs old and my bf and his x had been together for 9 months...they broke up about 6 months ago and me and him have been together for 4 months she calls him still all the time and we finally had enough and he told her off to stop calling... she talks **** on me and him and ive always wanted to handle her and hes never let me until now. what should i do? should i handle her? she wont stop and i know he handles any guys that mess with me what should i do?
2006-07-24 06:46:27 · 11 answers · asked by courtney k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be a woman she is being a child.
stay away from her and anyone she chills with she will get tried of not getting a response for her actions
but if she gets in your face "dont be the one who starts it" handle yours, go for what you know.
sometimes woman has to let a ***** know what is good
2006-07-24 06:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Soldier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it! If he cares enough for you, he will take care of the situation. There are people who enjoy having two lovers fight over them. They don't admit it, and really dense ones don't realize it.. He should tell her it's over!
The best thing you can do is back off. Don't get accusing or whine, and don't give him some bossy ultimatum, just tell him calmly that you care for him and would like to be his girl, but you are not comfortable in a triangle , so you'll see him, or not, when his old affair is over.
2006-07-24 06:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is for you boyfriend to stop, not you. There must be a reason why she is still calling him and hanging on. My guess is he's still seeing her or sleeping with her. He's not letting her beleive it's 100% over. You need to stay out of it, let him handle her. Fighting over a guy is immature anyway.
2006-07-24 06:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell u a true story.....my cousin was18 and was dating a 19 year old guy with a crazy ex girlfriend and it was kinda the same story your telling but when she went to fight her the girl stabbed my cousin who is now deceased the ex girlfriend is in prison and the guy is with another girl 6mths later.....sweetie I am not preaching to you but fighting is so not worth it sometimes I am not saying stand around and be disrespected what I am saying is ignore her and if she threatens you and your boyfriend doesn't handle it call the police on her......harrassment.......hope this helps
2006-07-24 06:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by aintdatsumshet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should be ignoring her. He shouldn't waste his time talking to her when she calls him. He can always change his number. You don't need to do anything. If he doesn't get rid of her, then he doesn't respect you and you should go find someone else.
2006-07-24 06:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature...2 points!
2006-07-24 07:00:46 · answer #6 · answered by Humility 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, she isn't worth lowering yourself to her level. Be the bigger person and remember kindness kills. Besides if your boyfriend still talks to her than get rid of him too, you can do better tell him you wanna date him not him and his x
2006-07-24 06:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by mommy2faithat19#3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let it go.....but he needs to tell this girl that IT IS OVER! it seems like he hasnt really man-ed up and just laid it out for her, most guys do this because they like the attention.....but if he cant settle his business, you should get out of it, because you should not have to deal with all the drama
2006-07-24 07:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good ole fashion cat fight is in order here.
Kick her ***, she'll get the idea.
2006-07-24 06:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her tell her to quit harassing you both if she doesn't call the police and she will be placed under arrest hopefully.
2006-07-24 06:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Tony B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋