My guy drives 5 to 6 hours every weekend just to c me, he stays at my house and he dont go no where without me, he came down this weekend and i asked him if he was having fun, he asked me back and i said yeah, then he said that that was all that mattered and that yes he was happy, just cn me and hanging out was fine 4 him, we didnt do nething this weekend and i asked him y not, he said coz he didnt really even care about that, all he wanted 2 do was hold me and tell me how much he loves me, which he does ALOT, idk, im torn, plz help
2006-07-24 06:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by *Brooke* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im also 13 and he's 21, thats the problem
2006-07-24 06:47:41 · update #1
yes,
that is love.. he loves u with all is heart if he would do something like that. ur love maybe distant but if he comes out there every weekend. sex shouldnt be the main part in a realationship. love is how u feel an how he feels.. with a man like that girl u better hold on tight cuz ur lucky u got one of very very few guys. sry if i couldnt help u. but i wish u the best of luck
2006-07-24 17:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by sparklvusj 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are bored let him know that you need to get out of the house every once in a while and go on a date even though you truly love him too and like just holding him. Good luck and hand him some eggs as a present while you are at it. Cluck Cluck!!!
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2006-07-24 06:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Hi : 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about you but driving really takes it out of me, and i only drive 30 min to see my bf.. unless there is traffic, and when there is traffic LORD! by the time i get to his house i don't even want to move. Maybe you should go see him once in a while if you can, whatever it takes.. take a bus if you have to. And maybe he'll have some energy to go somewhere with you.
2006-07-24 06:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by bickeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what decision you need to make...his actions speak for themselves...he is willing to go the distance to be with you...he is satisfied just being in your company...he loves you...what does your heart or gut question about such behavior...or are you feeling guilty because there is someone else you want to see?
2006-07-24 06:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie ... he is either broke or cheap.
If he is broke and you really love him, there are lots of free things to do no matter where you live.
If he is just cheap, run like hell. He won't change and you will be miserable.
Wait ... YOU ARE 13 AND HE IS 21 ????
You both need to be with someone your own age.
2006-07-24 06:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
picture you two in the future, will he still hold you when there is 2 young kids running around like wild animals and your 8 months pregnant and didn't feel like cleaning yourself up for that day?
oh it's all good right now, will it be the same later on in years?
2006-07-24 06:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by crazy_pixie_dust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the problem....are you complaining he drives 5-6 hours to come see you yet he takes you no where?
2006-07-24 06:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have someone that cares and loves you, if you honestly believe this isn't working out because of the distance then break up with him or find a way to move closer to each other.
2006-07-24 06:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great to have a man that is genuinely in love with you...keep this guy if he makes you happy and you love him. don't make something out of nothing enjoy the love, sometimes it takes people a life time to find it.
2006-07-24 06:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To follow heart or gut is the same thing.
2006-07-24 06:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋