WHy is life so hard sumtimes...everything was fine for awile...then My boyfriend broke up with me...which killed me on the inside...then i find out i still have MAJOR feelings for him...my parents start fighting...and i dont no where my dad went...sumone help me...
2006-07-24 06:22:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i hate those days...when it seems like everything is bad and that nothing is going to work out....there are two solutions for me.....
1.) have someone nice give you a warm hug and tell you that everything is going to be alright. (don't think about anything but their embrace.)
2.) wait till nightime (hopefully there are no clouds) and look up at the stars. the countless stars in the sky always remind me how big the world is and how many other things there are out there. everything could change in the blink of an eye. for every star there are dozens of planets and for every planet there are dozens of moons....for all we know there could be another Earth out there with another you or me....p.s. hopefully when you're looking up you'll see a shooting star and your truest desire/wish will come to light.
2006-07-24 06:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by tallpaulmwp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time will help. Everything at once feels overwhelming, but if you just let a little time go by you will find you get through it. EVerything works out and usually for the better in the long run. There will be another guy and probably better for you. Your feelings for the old guy may just be you feeling lonely. Again take the time to let your mind and heart recover.
Your parents are just like every other couple in the world (brothers and sisters as well)... sometimes you don't get along. But I bet most of the time they do get along and at the heart of it all they love each other.
Life is all about L I V I N... Enjoy what you can, try not to let the troubles and sadness find you. You'll be happier if you focus on what you love about life.
Peace.
2006-07-24 13:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Greggath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Courtney.. you have a really good life.. parents that love you, a cool brother, nice house, nice cars, your dad has a good job, you have the best friends in the world. Who cares about him. If he wanted to lose you in the first place.. it's his loss. He should have known what he was doing when he broke up with you. There are a lot of guys that like you.. you don't necissarily have to date anyone right now.. give it time and you will see that you will fall in love with the right person and everything will be fine.
2006-07-24 13:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is never easy no matter whether you have a boyfriend, job, good loving family, somewhere along the line the carpet will always get pulled out from under you, you just have to learn to accept that, that happens in life and pull yourself right back on and move on... on dwelling on things as that makes it worse.. put it behind you and pray and you will be surprised how your life will change.
2006-07-24 13:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by desoriana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm curious to how old you are; you sound young and if so: Because you're young take this relationship as a lesson; sit and be collective in thought to what you've been through and know the next time you'll be a little more prepared for matters of the heart...and If your parents are fighting you'll have to allow them to work it out, not you; them.
2006-07-24 13:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by Love Doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because this is the way life is, Courtnizzle. All of us experience these kind of ups and downs. We all have to deal with the downs, whether it be with anger, depression, hatred, whatever. We learn to cope, learn from the experience, and finally accept what we cannot change.There is growth in the acceptance. This doesn't make life any less hard, but it does make it bearable, and more thankful for the good that happens in our lives.
2006-07-24 13:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct, life is very hard! Unfortunately though if we don't live through some trials and tribulations, we don't learn to appreciate life. Every event you endure that does not kill you is meant to make you stronger and wiser. Take notes of your current events in life so that you as an adult do not make the same mistakes.
2006-07-24 13:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you baby.I went through hard times myself and more are probably on the way.Anyway,life will never be easy,you just gotta know how to work with it.Sorry I can't tell you about what to do about your father because I never met mine.I really hope things change for you.1.
2006-07-24 13:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Eugene the "Slim Thug" 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to remember that no matter how hard you have it, someone else has it worse! Life was not ment to be easy or we would all succed at it. Life is a roller coaster and you need to enjoy the ride and not b*tch on how long the line is.
2006-07-24 13:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by kimpierce76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh,Girl I feel yo pain,I been through alot,you have no idea what life can bring you! Life is like a game that ppl go through lvls each day!!! Trust me they;ll be some good times 2,just hold on there,I really feel you!!!!!!
2006-07-25 11:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lissa305 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋