and i just joined a club team but some horrible things has happend in my family and my heart isnt into playing anymore but every time i say i should keep playing my gut says i should quit but when i say i am going to quit my gut says to stay? what should i go?? any help? my family are ok with my decisions but i dont know if i will be happy with either.
2006-07-24 05:58:57 · 10 answers · asked by h 1 in Sports ➔ Football ➔ Other - Football
i am also not planning to play in high school or as a career just as a hobby.
2006-07-24 06:19:11 · update #1
stay and play soccer, thats were ur heart is. u never know u might be earnin millions in the future
2006-07-24 06:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your heart isn't in the game, then don't play. Maybe in the future you will rediscover soccer and play it again with new found enthusiasm. Playing soccer is about having fun and don't worry if you don't play for a while these 9 years won't go to waste.
I tell you this from personal experience. I used to play during my childhood but life took me on a different paths. After 17 years without playing we started gathering with a bunch of friends for pickup games at the local park. It's been 4 years now playing every Sunday, and I enjoy it as I did when I was 10 years old. The technique was a bit rusty in the beginning but you never forget what to do with the ball, with a little bit of practice you pick it up again and your game also becomes more intelligent.
2006-07-24 07:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lumas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you quit, I think you will probably miss your teammates more than the game. Teammates are great, especially soccer ones. If you've got bad stuff going on, maybe staying on the team will help you deal, you know, put you in a different environment for awhile, give you a break. At least finish out the season, then you can have a whole year to think about it.
2006-07-24 06:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep playing! its good for your health and it boosts up your energy level, who cares if you lose or something i mean its just for fun! i think you should keep playing because if you dont feel up to it, make your self detirmened to do it! i mean i play all the time even if i dont feel up to it and usually we win the game on my worst day! its werid, jus keep playing after a while you will be determined to do it more
2006-07-24 08:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by socceroxs92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen the movie Raise Your Voice? It's not about soccer but it is the same kind of problem. If you haven't seen it you should.
2006-07-24 06:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't quit all together. pick up a new hobby that might challenge you more with it. this might make you miss soccer or maybe you find a new passion.
2006-07-24 06:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by H2O B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep playing and never give up!
2006-07-24 06:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep playing! It will be good for your body and mental health.
2006-07-24 06:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some time off and when you really think ur ready then go play
2006-07-24 06:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on playing
it will influance on your feeling
2006-07-24 06:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by mona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋