2006-07-24 05:55:31 · 10 answers · asked by Donna C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It can be quite difficult to accept what we can't change, because these things remind us of one of the most uncomfortable truthes of our existence: none of us is fully in control of our lives, especially when it comes to dealing with the behavior we don't like of those we love.
2006-07-24 06:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Humans, especially females, are hard wired to be in control of their environment. Look how many societies developed with the woman being the main gather and producer of food and shelter.
Today our environment is work, relationships, home life and expectations for the future.
The sooner we all learn to let go of the disappointments and to stop hitting the brick walls of the things we can not change the sooner we become someone we like.
It just takes time.
2006-07-24 06:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Beth T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is a part in all of us that believes there is a way to fix almost everything. We think there is some little trick or idea that can make change occur and even when we know it isn't going to happen we still refuse to accept defeat.
2006-07-24 05:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question. Some things should be different, but for some reason, can't be. Frustrating.
I've found the only way to guarantee change, when possible, is to inconvenience the right person/people. Until it matters to the people with the power to change it, it won't.
2006-07-24 05:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its so hard because you know what you want, or how you want things to go, but it doesnt matter, life is life and things happen that you do and do not like, but you have to roll with the punches whether you like it or not. but its hard to just give up some dream or have something thats your base just give out from beneath you.
2006-07-24 06:07:04 · answer #5 · answered by ExplainThisClarissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attitude.....mine is never sweat what is...and only change what can be.....and if you want too......if you can't change it....don't worry about it....live with it....is it hard to accept? what choice do you have......just accept it and move on....
2006-07-24 06:19:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what it is....
Somethings maybe hard to live with
2006-07-24 05:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your used to getting your way that can be a big factor
2006-07-24 05:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by courtney k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're stuck with it.
2006-07-24 05:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by peaco1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep rebelling...u will get there
2006-07-24 05:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋