i don't have any money, but i want to show him he's wanted and that i love him. something fun, and not sexual. i have picked him flowers, and written him poems, and i have run out of ideas. please help!!!!
2006-07-24 05:49:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
are these just because gifts? If so find things he like a work from there be very creative with your ideals.
2006-07-24 05:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i have to say is if you think that you have to buy him something to tell him that you love him, you need a brain check. if he has a problem with you not buying him anything than you should get rid of him. unless you are engaged or something you dont need to waist your money on some one you are not sure you will stay with forever. i mean you can spend a little on him but dont blow your bank account. im pretty sure he wouldnt want that.
what you have done so far should be good enough. as a suggestion maybe you should invite him over and cook dinner for him. guys love it when their girls cook for them.
p.s i am glad you dont want to do anything sexual. anything like that will not help you out in the long run.
2006-07-24 12:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Independent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking more along the lines of maybe getting something like a picnic together if you have enough for the ingredients just simple things is all you need you know....just make sure you let him know off top you only wanted to do something simple to let him know he's still got what you want :-) They like that!!!
2006-07-24 12:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by baby gyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What iv done before is just plan a relaxing day for him baby him all day rub his back go outside in the back yard and have a picnic and just make love to him
2006-07-24 12:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by Holly Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something I did for my hubby was make him a collage of pictures from his childhood. I called his mom and got her to send me some pics (telling her why) and it turned out great! He loved it and we hung it up in his office. He was touched by me working on something that was so special to him. I asked his mom to get me as many familiy members as possible and it was really fun as he told me about the stories from each picture.
2006-07-24 12:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by saramah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movies and buy a big bucket of popcorn and your tickets. Then sit back and enjoy the movie. It's a great bonding time, and how much or how little you two do is up to you.
2006-07-24 13:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Aera Kiasaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk to him gently and emotionally how important he is in your life. You have not mentioned in your question whether you are married to him or not. If you have married him, explain him the values of marital bond and the intricacies of family life. Certainly he would listen to you and get attracted to your noble appealings if he has no other ideas of deception.
2006-07-24 13:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by SRIRANGAM G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello suzukigirl06,
Yeah, drumrchick has the right idea. Cooking his favorite food is really the best non-sexual thing that you can do for him that he will really appreciate.
--Rick
2006-07-24 12:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u live a big town? go to a museum, if u live in a small town make him dinner and go on a picnic, by a lake or a breezy park, in the evening so its not so hot and crowded!
2006-07-24 12:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by jmklk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what his favorite sport is and watch a game with him without asking any annoying questions. Just cheer when he does.
2006-07-24 12:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by anthonydavidpirtle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋