is there such a thing as true friends????

Question

all my friends seem to be jelouse of me.
they are always competing against me, it is really annoying.
why cant they just lead their own lifes and stop coping me in eveything i do, including school work. i do try and talk to then about it, but they just deny everything.

Answer 1

dump them they aren't your friends a true friend wouldn't compare them selfs to you plus they would be themselfs and wouldn't be jealous or even try and copy what you do, you need better friends and they sertianly sound like loser to me, sorry if its harsh but hunny your better than that. you need better friends, tell them to change their ways or your outta there. you don't need them you deserve better. honestly hunny get rid of them. no one needs that type of friend. dump them dump them!!!!!! i cant say it enough times, they are pathetic to act like that you don't need it no one needs it, sorry if im repeating my self but i have seen it before and its not pretty. hope i helped, sorry if it was a bit harsh but its the truth. good luck sweetie. x

Answer 2

this happenes.mostly when your at school. when you get older you will realise who your real friends are. my advise is find some new mates hang about with at school. but trust me there is such a thing called a true friend. but you might not find out who they are until your older or when you've been in situtions of when you need your friends.. i had lots of mates at school. im 23 (lefted 7/8years ago,and dont see any off them apart from 2 of them i've known for 12 years or so. i class them as true friends.been there though think and thin. also found some very good friends from work etc.

Answer 3

Yes I believe there is such a thing as true friends - as ur true friends are always on the same wavelength as u - they no what ur're thinking etc. U may never meet a friend as special as that again. Ure true friends respect and give u room to grow.

Answer 4

yes but only:0.01%.
A true friend only breaks up in a fight. A friend breaks up in an arguement.
A true friend will never let you down. A friend will only tease you and bully you.
A true Friend will be there for you no matter what. A friend will just stand there and watch.
A true friend will cry if you moved or died. A friend will only find a new one.

A true friend can exist......... if you keep on searching through the black clouds.
If they copy you alot, then set an example to them*

Answer 5

Thats how a lot of females are. They act like they have your back but they'll turn around and bite you in the *** when you really need them. I'm 21 years old and can only consider myself to have 1 true female friend out there. My old best friend did me so dirty that I don't even talk to her anymore. And when she came to me for help a few weeks ago I wouldn't do it. Thats just how they are they are your friends but your enemies at the same time. Watch your back.

Answer 6

Yes, there are true friends! But not all friends are such ones. Obviously, your friends aren't so true according to what they do. Just try to find another ones who wouldn't copy everything from you and will have their own opinions and will be diferent personalities as you! Not kind of your shadows as your current friends.

Answer 7

I think so but you may not find that all of your friends are. One thing i try and remember is that to have a great friend you have to be one too (not implying that you aren't). I consider myself extremely lucky to have one person who i can trust with absolutely anything and even though it is true you can never have too many friends i think there is a big difference between knowing alot of people and considering them all to be your friends. But yes is the answer to your ??

Answer 8

Yes, there are definitley true friends; although i do think that it can be hard to find them when you are young. When people are young, they are constantly looking to be validated by others. That's why trends tend to be copied so much more by young people than older people. Don't be to hard on your friends. They obviously look up to you, and are a bit jealous because you have more self assurance than they do. They will grow out of it. And eventually as you live and experience more you will meet more people with whom you can have a more substantial connection.

Answer 9

i agree with haylindreams because a true friend never gets jealous over your successes they suport you in wat u are doing, and pull up on you when ure doing cr*p. They are always there for you and have your back, and when something goes wrong and you are sad, they take time off from wat they are doing in order to talk and make you laugh a true friend knows you inside out which is your likes and dislikes(well the ones you've told them) A true friend is always there for you when you need a shoulder to cry on. You be the judge and see if they really are or not because it's your call.

Answer 10

Oh yes, there are true friends. But no one will ever have many of them. A few true friends is all you need, anyway.
But it looks to me as if you might want to start afresh, since the ones you have seem not to live up to expectations.

Answer 11

Because they want to be YOU. And yes it seems like they are displaying jealousy.

Beware: Your best friend(s) could be your worse enemie(s).

This is true - its happened to me on many occasions.

True friends are ones that will be there for you when your down. Anyone can share in your happiness, but its those that can also share in your unhappiness who are your real friends.