I am sooo happy to hear that you found the love of your life!! Being Happy and following your destiny certainly is most important in life. I feel we can control our destiny and that everything does happen for a reason. People often say that they would go back and change something in their life if they could like mistakes. I believe we all make mistakes and what is important is that we learn from them. I feel life is a chain reaction and each step leads us to another one. These steps all add up to where we are today. I am who I am today because of all my mistakes and all my positive experiences. I love who I am and I love the people around me. I feel if I would change just one thing then that given day everything would change and that alone would change my entire life. I could never change the fact that I have 2 beautiful children and a wonderful husband. If I would of changed the day when I met my husband then we would of never been together to build the happy life we have with one another. Yes, Yes things do happen for a reason. Keep reaching for the stars and may all your dreams come true!!!!!!!!
2006-07-24 05:47:22
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answered by lovelyandcarefree 5
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I do too. I was with a guy for 4 years (a real jerk of course, but I couldn't see it at the time) and we both wanted a child. We never, ever used birth control the whole time we were together. After we broke it off, we both have kids with other people. I can not imagine what my life would be like if I had a child with this loser.
Then, I met my husband in a place where he was running late and I was there early. He had been praying for a girl to come along and change his life and give him something to live for. He also had always wanted to adopt two children. When we met, he moved 1400 miles from home to be with me (changed his life) and I had two kids from my previous marriage that he treats as his own.
Yes, I definately believe things in life happen for a reason, even if we don't realize what the reason is at the time.
2006-07-24 05:51:00
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answered by carrie love 2
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Yes, I believe everything happens for a reason. In 1997 I moved to Va. from NY. with a man I realized I didn't love. While I lived there, I worked part time as a Disc Jockey at a radio station. Something I thought I wanted to do. I then realized my calling in life was to become a record producer. Had I not taken a chance and moved, I would have never worked at a radio station. I got a clearer perspective of who I was as a person.
2006-07-24 05:45:13
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answered by Nora T 3
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I think even if we don't realize it at the time, everything in our lives happens for a reason. I had a pretty hard life, but I honestly believe that everything that happened led me straight to my husband, who is the the most wonderful man in the world. I believe everything that happens in your life makes you the person that you. Though there is a lot of stuff I wish I wouldn't have to remember and think about at times, I know in my heart that I actually received a lot of positive out of those incidents. All in all, I couldn't be happier then where I am today, and I try not to question why I suffered the way I did in my life.
2006-07-24 13:28:46
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answered by Naples_6 5
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I moved to Kentucky from Cleveland Ohio when I was 9, and I hated my parents for it. I always said that I would move back to Cleveland when I turned 18. I also said I would never date anyone "down here". I hated everything about this state, I hated country music, I hated the southern draw when everybody spoke anything to do with the south, I hated it. Until I was 17 and met the love of my life. Now I love Kentucky, love country music, love the southern accents and I am starting to gain one myself. I love everything about this beautiful state and wouldn't live anywhere else. All because I met the most wonderful man and because my dad's job got transfered to Kentucky 11 years ago. I thought God was being mean to me at the time and now I see he had his reasons. Don't you just love the way everything always seems to work it's self out just right?
2006-07-24 05:47:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Everything happen for a reason but many times we are not that reason. In fact, the reason is the inevitable history and us.
We cannot change much regardless how much we try as long as we live in a wrong place and in a wrong time.
The reason is history. First we all have to bear the past of human race and after than we can change something but we cannot avoid to bear some attitude of the past because it is karma.
"Whatever you do, the result is the same"
2006-07-24 05:44:34
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answered by Anonymous
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yes, i do believe every thing has reasoning to it, even if the experience isn't exactly a party. My family moved from a big town in Idaho to a tiny 200 year old one in Pennsylvania. i was very unhappy there at first, but while i was there i got to know Jordon. I never would have thought we would get along because we are soo diffrent. turns out we are still VERY good friends to this day and we can count on eachother no matter what, and that is very inportant to me now. so yes, if we hadn't moved to that tiny town that noone ever heard of, i would not have met my best friend Jordon.
2006-07-24 05:43:19
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answered by taco 3
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Yes I do believe things happen for a reason, I believe in fate and that we can all make our own destiny happen for us, I believe fate plays a big part in every-ones life and what is meant to be is meant to be and nothing can change that, well fate has thrown so many good things at my life so I believe in it strongly.
Like you I met the love of my life and through unbeknown to both of us at the time our life's has crossed each others path so many times before we met, but I reckon the day we did it was on our path of fate that got us together and thank god for fate hey.
2006-07-26 03:42:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes I do believe and there have been many times in life that this has been proven to me. I think the most memorable for me is how me and my current BF got together. I was with a guy for 11 years before him. on and off and abusive relationship. I feel like my current BF came into my life at just the right time to save me from myself and the ex
2006-07-24 06:14:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes I believe that things happen for a reason. My life for example:
After High School I meet and dated a Pilot. He ask me to marry
him a month after he died in a car accident I thought I'd never
Fall in love again.
5 years later I met a man you treated me well and we fell in love. He asked to marry me and in less then a year he died of Cancer.
I really thought that was it I never wanted to hurt again,.
I went to college and Worked at my career for years and I really thought that I was going to be alone forever. A friend introduced me to a man that just started working at the company that I worked for. He was from New York State. We went out and 3 Weeks later he asked me to marry him I'm 33 and have a wonderful family. I truly believe I had to go through What I did to find the man of my dreams and have my beautiful children.
2006-07-24 05:52:55
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answered by Anonymous
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