ok so i've been with this guy for about 4 months or so. I USED to like him a lil, but now ... NO WAY!!! i even talk to his lil brother cause we have nothing to talk about. He like really REALY likes me but I dont. Any ides how should I brake up with him without really braking his heart???????????????
Thanks
p.s. i put this question in beauty an dstyle because the people seem nicer in here =)
2006-07-24 05:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Firstly, you have to do what's best for you. If you're not happy, then it's your responsibility to do something about it. Think about what it is, exactly, that you're feeling (or not feeling) and put it on paper so you won't forget what you want to say when you finally do talk to him.
Second, you need to be honest with him, without being hurtful. Tell him how YOU feel. Start the conversation with "I feel...." Don't say things like "You just don't do it for me"...it comes off much better if you say "My feelings for you have changed and I don't feel the same way about you as you do about me."
There may not be any way for him not to feel hurt. But remember, you are not responsible for how he feels. It's normal to feel bad when you break up...especially if you are not the one who wants to break up.
Be gentle. Be kind. But speak your heart.
Good luck
2006-07-24 05:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by rhubarb3142 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, i'm here to help. ok this guy, is he like a nerd who can't shut his brain up? or is he like the handsome prince with no brain? I was in your situ. 2. and i got out of it with a real easy get-away. Now if it's "the prince" then critazies every thing.(sorry if i spell wrong) But if it's the ugly man then you want to try a different aproch. either just brake it, caues if he's nerd than he's used to it. or u can just say,"look we'er both young and we have our hole lives left, we'er not going to be together forever. so i think that we should date other people." and make shore that you say it slowly and calmy, and use a super duper sweet voice. You DON"T want to hear fom him,"i don't under stand?" that means that either you broke his heart or that he realy dosn't understand.
Good luck and tell me what happens.
2006-07-24 05:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by sweetchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've got to sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel. You say he really likes you so it's obvious he's gonna get hurt. Instead of milking the relationship out longer, you've got to end it before it gets any deeper. The longer you're with someone, the longer it takes to get over them. Tell him how you feel and stop worring about other people. You should come first in what you want in life. You'll be a lot happier that way. Good luck.
2006-07-24 05:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by VetteLeo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y should u brake up with him. don do this ,this 'll surely break his heart. be a good friend of him (within limits as u have the intention to break his friendship).say hi be cool don think that u hate him b'coz he is not going to be with u throughout your life so b cool and b a friend of everyone .don show hatred towards anyone as we are in the earth for just a few yrs y to have misunderstandings and get worried .do good to others.from your question itself i can understand how confused u r.be cool
2006-07-24 05:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by mini agarwal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really really likes you, you will have to break his heart to break up with him. But, not to worry. He WILL get over it. You will likely break hearts and have yours broken several times in your lifetime. It is a part of living. You might ask yourself "Why did I like him before"? and Why Do I not like him now"? What has changed? You? Him?
2006-07-24 05:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by seeker100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
w-e-e-e-ellllllll.....uh, well, i actually have sort of the same prob as u, but i think the guy is sorta done with me 2....hmmm....maybe u should really start toking to his brother a lot, so it looks like u like his brother more than him (and i'm just toking like ur guy suddenly starts thinking that u want to b friends with his brother rather than being gf to him. and also, if u guys kiss, stop kissing him so much, and whenever he shows signs of wanting to kiss u, like act oblivious to it, like u don't kno he wants to kiss...i think that's it! love yah, good luck!
2006-07-24 07:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by sweety_pie!! <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just be nice and sweet as can be and tell him I's prefer that we would be best friends instead of bg/gf, as it would make you feel better. And see how he responds.
2006-07-24 06:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by •NaNNou• 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you see him as more of a ffriend than a boyfriend so he will still be your friend.if he likes you that much he should still want to be your friend,or if you dont want anything to do with him tell him its not working out and you want to breakup he will get over it and find someone else.
2006-07-24 06:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by sexi lexi$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
vell, just be honest vith za guy und tell him zat you don't vant to be vith him anymore. He vill appreciate zour honesty even zo he vill be crushed und zart trinking ze bier.
2006-07-24 05:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by "Doc"Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him about how you feel. not telling him and staying with him just because he loves you. then when you do tell him you will break his heart.
2006-07-24 06:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋