some times that is not possible to do sex in a marrige life by staying away , living in seprate rooms , with family or due to childrens [small babys] . what will you do then ? does non sex days effect our marrige lifes ?
2006-07-24 05:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by Sidd 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've actually been having problems lately having sex, because I'm too sore. The great thing, though, is that I know that my husband can last a long time without sex. He wants to make sure that sex is always enjoyable for me, so he's not pushing it. He's definitely looking forward to when we can have sex anytime again, but he cares for me too much to ever let anything he does hurt me, and that's one of the reasons why we got married in the first place.
I actually think that's one of the reasons why God wants us to not have premarital sex. There are definitely times in a marriage when you can't have sex (all those you listed above and more), and it's important to know that both of you can not be having sex for a prolonged time and still be happy with each other.
Not having sex will definitely affect your marriage life, but hopefully it will only make your desire for each other stronger, rather than driving you away from each other. Sex is supposed to be the follow through on your loving feelings in a marriage, not the way you create those loving feelings. And you shouldn't be expressing your loving feelings only through sex. So hopefully, during those times, sex will be missed, but it won't be something that causes fights between the two of you. Good luck!
2006-07-24 05:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe it does but most guys think it does, my husb. gets where he is really hard to live w/ when without but he has gotten better, we have been together for almost 20 yr. now and we still have a heavy sex life but there are alot of times when you just cant health reasons mostly, we have adjusted to it, sex isnt everything in a relationship even though most think it is thats why theres not many togehter anymore,
2006-07-24 12:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good relationship not having sex a few days won't hurt the marriage. Make the most of quickies when you can and savor the time you do have for it.
2006-07-24 12:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to love with out sex. I have been married along long time ( no I'm not ancient) but we maybe have it once a week ,sometimes not for months. We love each other and show affection in other ways.
2006-07-24 12:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by kattychat57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a short period (a few days) it is OK, but for the long haul it will be the end of your marriage if you do not fix it.
Men like sex, if they are deprived of it they will go get it elsewhere. Even the nicest men will do it
It sounds like your marriage is in serious trouble your had better take action. now.
2006-07-24 14:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
men and women have different needs. Women have a tendency to go longer periods of time with out sex, b/c it's not one of the things they Need out of a relationship. Men, on the other hand, need sex more often then women.
over time, it would hurt the relationship if you did not have sex.
2006-07-24 13:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by mr and mrs gee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there isa study out that says on a whole couples with healthy sex lives are happier and healthier. So take from that what you will. I am married and I think it is very important and vital.
2006-07-24 12:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by ms_sweet_real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋