Sometimes when me and my husband are having sex he ask me if he can have sex with me and some other girl why? I ask him why? he tells me he is just playing around. Please help me i don't understand why?
2006-07-24 05:12:41 · 8 answers · asked by SunFlower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband used to play games like that. I let him know that I did not appreciate it and if he felt the need to bring some one else into our marriage, then our marriage would be over.
2006-07-24 05:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Deborah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a fantasy that a lot of males have and for that matter some females. Be honest with him and tell him that it bothers you when he says that and that you love him and want him to be happy but it ain't gonna happen. Find another fantasy you can both enjoy
2006-07-24 05:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have always fantasized about having sex with 2 women/
He throws it out to get your "vibe" on the idea.
If you said "yes", believe me he would do it.
If you say "no".. he will continue to fantasize about it..may even watch some adult content flicks to get his "fix" for his fantasy.
You can help by role playing different characters.. and if you do, make sure he returns the gesture.
All is harmless unless he takes it outside your relationship...
2006-07-24 05:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its something alot of men fantasise about. He either really wants to do it and is too embarrassed to ask or he thinks about it to help him through sex with you.
2006-07-24 05:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by kyleemckenzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but his cheating on you NOW! Men dont ask their wifes a stupid question like that unless there is something going on.
2006-07-24 05:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by ~Aqua.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because every guy's fantasy is a threesome.
His way of introducing that fantasy is through joking comments...he's just feeling you out. I wouldn't get mad at him...just tell him to stop if you are really not interested.
2006-07-24 05:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch!! baby girl. he's telling you that he's consider cheating or had cheated. either you're not satifying him, or he has someone else in mind. was he like this before you were married?
2006-07-24 05:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to know why.
Show him the road.
2006-07-24 05:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by Puzzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋