I used to have a friend (a good one, girl) but due to some misunderstandings our friendship came to an end (I hope it's not completely ended). I know that she is going to face a big problem which might jeopardize her life (it may be true or not) but I would like to warn her and also I would like to clear all misunderstandings between her and myself. I'm not bothered whether she accepts to be my friend again or not. But, I care for her a lot what to do?? Should I go and tell her everything or just clear the misunderstandings or just remain without talking to her. Please give me clear answer.
2006-07-24 04:51:55 · 6 answers · asked by Dvij 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe if she won't talk with you...write her a letter. Tell her how you value her and your friendship. Apologize for your wrongs and ask her to find it in her heart to forgive you. Try not to point the finger at her wrongs, but accept accountability for your own. Pray for her and your mutual friendship.
2006-07-24 04:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her to clear things up. Good friends are hard to come by. You must care about your relationship with her or you wouldn't be thinking about it. If she tells you to go to h ell, then you know she's not a true friend and you've lost nothing. If you do nothing you may spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been.
2006-07-24 04:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her everything and clear the misunderstanding if you like her as a friend then you will be willing to do anything for her. right?
if she doesn't want to be friends then just tell her how you feel about that. if you care alot you will do the right thing . dont worry thing will turn out great.
2006-07-24 04:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would send a nice card or something wishing her luck with whatever it is she's going to be going through.
But then again if your not really bothered about 'being friends'again and if you fell out over something bad - do you care?
2006-07-24 04:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by vegasistrapped 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter explaining how you feel and what you know. Give her some time and just let her know you'll be there for her. But I wouldn't go talk to her if she's still upset.
2006-07-24 04:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. Do you really want to be her friend? That just happened to me a few months ago me and my BEST friend got in a huge fight over nothing but then I realized she wasn't truely my bestfriend if she wants to fight and not be friends or nothing. Call her up and tell her everything you just told me. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
2006-07-24 04:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by brookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋