2006-07-24 04:46:07 · 15 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not at all.
It just means the spark is gone.
Tips for you:
Work out - HARD. Get an awesome body for him. Let him see you living life instead of being stuck in a rut.
Watch porn, and learn new tricks. Learn how to talk, how to act, and what to do in bed. Then show him what a slut you are. He'll probably be weirded out, but he'll come around because his wife is now a hot nympho...not the boring potato in bed.
Trust me...those things will work. :-)
And no, it doesn't mean he's having an affair, it just means he's bored. We bore easy.
2006-07-24 05:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the first thing that would come to my mind, but I think you should give him a chance and just investigate the problem. He may be having issues with getting it up, and if that's because of cheating then kick him to the curb. Ask him if he is still attracted to you because I know first hand that if you gained some weight then he probably can't stand the sight of you. Ask more questions to him about it and let him know it's important the he is completely honest with you. If he feels guilty when responding then chances are he has cheated or is no longer attracted to you. If it's neither of the two then he should be able to come right out and say it. Believe me, the vagina is a powerful thing, men have gone to war over it, so something is seriously wrong if he doesn't want to play in yours.
2006-07-24 04:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by TiaLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it means he's cheating on you (although I'm not an expert) cause I make excuses all the time not to have sex with my husband and it doesn't mean that I'm cheating or thinking about it. It just means I'm tired! I do take care of a baby and a house all day long (besides cleaning his dirty underwear all day doesn't really put me in the mood)
2006-07-24 04:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by shadie_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time this is what that means, so now it's up to you to verify if he really is cheating. Get ready for the lies and excuses to follow any questions you have.
2006-07-24 05:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before jumping to the conclusion he is cheating find out if something else is going on, stress, job problems a lot of things can cause a man to loose the ability and he might be to imbarrassed to say honey I can't get it up.
2006-07-24 04:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a number of things like stress, worry, not finding you attractive enough but won't want to leave you, or evan physical reasons.
2006-07-24 05:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have ED erectile dysfunction and is embarrassed to say something to you.
This happens to men alot. And it's only temporary in most cases.
2006-07-24 05:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he's either selfish or pissed at something.
If he was banging someone else too he'd want the ego trip of nailing both of you each day.
2006-07-24 04:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he always has an exuse not to have sex with u
it might be that he is cheating on you, or that he
has abad deasease
2006-07-24 05:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could mean he's cheating or he's hiding something! he may have a god reason you should just ask him whats going on
2006-07-24 04:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋