have this friend and i accidentally falling to her..i court her in a way..we used to go out i give her book,chocolate,and flowers..most of the times were together..other people got an impression that were on but were not...i'm open about my feelings to her...i always show my concern and care to her...one time i talk to her about my feelings and she said we better of friends...but yesterday she phone me and said that she miss the way we was before...now i'm so confused...pls help me dont know what to do..i want to move on pls tell me what the best thing i could do..thanks...
2006-07-24 04:39:43 · 5 answers · asked by hadjietroy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She just misses the gifts you bought her...move on
2006-07-24 05:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my advise is that you proceed with care which means if you do really love her and she suddenly decided to be with you,you can give it a GO but don't expect much from her.but what I would suggest is that you try to find out what's the reason behind this change cause some girls are a bit selfish they only care about their happiness or their security and they don't take in consideration if they'll hurt someone to achieve their goals or not. My Dear you seem a lovely guy who's in love and ready to do anything for it so pls be careful and do talk to her before you get involved and get hurt.and don't be too excited about her call just give her a bit of time to decide what she wants to do and at the same time you can find out if she really loves you or not.
Good Luck!
2006-07-24 12:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by celine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like you want to move on, then you probably should!
WHY is it just now that she's getting "re-interested", is she just bored? Does she miss the attention that you used to give her????
Quite frankly I've always been on your side of this "problem" and never on the other - and no one ever decided that all the work I out into stuff made me what they wanted -
OK too much information -
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-07-24 11:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Triddine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she liked the attention you gave her, and when it is gone she realizes what she is missing. but you want more and she is unwilling to become more than friends. for sure move on because you want more and she can't give it to you.
2006-07-24 11:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u luv her then say yes if not then just you'd rather b friends....its as simple as that
2006-07-24 11:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Shantel C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋