i love my husband i feel like he does not love me i gave everything including my virginity he is the only 1?

Question

yeah well i got engaged at 16 and married at18 he is 8 years older than me now we are two and a half months married and i hate my life help me with your answrs please he is the only guy i evr slept with i never even dated anyone else in my life he is over protective and i even have a jealousy problem even though i am way more prettier than he is people often asked if i was a model why doesn't he see me that bueaiful and why am i so jealous?

Answer 1

18 years, in my opinion, is too early to invest in a huge emotional relationship that a married life almost always demands. This clearly shows from the terrible stress that you are experiencing and having to deal with in your life at the moment. Although it is commendable that you love your husband, it does not alleviate the issues that have arisen: jealousy, over-protectiveness, etc. The positive thing is that this might be a 'transitory' phase into maturity where both of you grow out of this situation and your personal insecurities with your deep love for each other triumphing in the end. Whatever the consequence, however, it is important that both of you 'dialogue' these issues by bringing them to the fore and trying to amicably resolve these sooner rather than later. Goodluck!

Answer 2

Wow ..You must make a determination however Im no longer definite you are thoroughly capable to do this.Maybe you wish to have a while clear of all three..even only for a brief whilst for the reason that by way of seeing them and dozing with them its inflicting an excessive amount of emotional confusion.If it have been me Id return to my husband if I nonetheless cherished him.You wont uncover alot of guys inclined to return in spite of everything this and take delivery of the entire children.You cant simply hold each and every respectable guy you come back throughout as your very possess..or finally you may also emerge as without any of them.I say return to Emmett you cant believe approximately what coulda been with Keith.We all have humans from the beyond even ones we have now had children by way of and nonetheless matters dont determine for anything the rationale...And concerning the 3rd man while you already had emotions for two guys is solely nonsense.But its all performed now..return for your husband if he's a well guy and you continue to love him. Good good fortune:)

Answer 3

I feel that you were to young for this. He, himself as a man should have waited until you were at least 25. You have a life that you never got to see. You are a child what do you think will happen when the kids start coming in. You can't play house with the kids. Did you even think about any of this before you jumped into this. Just because he is the only one don't mean that their is somebody better then him out their. You did not get a chance to taste life. You should have went to collage, hung out with a few friends and lived a little. It is not to late go to Collage do something for yourself before the kids come.

Answer 4

I am basically in the same position as you except I got married at 19, my husband is five years older, and I did do it with one other person (like an idiot) when me and my husband were broken up before we got married. There is a risk that comes with getting involved so young, and most of the time women end up with scum bags like your husband when they do commit at a young age. Sounds like you and your hubby have some trust issues and that is only going to make matters worse. You are going to change in the next couple of years and you need to know that he can deal with that kind of change. If not then you will probably get divorced. He needs to act like he loves you and really feel it, otherwise I think this may be a doomed marriage. Don't get pregnant, get on birth control, atleast until you know that he is going to make some serious changes and follow through with them.

Answer 5

Hi,my name is Tina i got married the first when i was 14 to my first boyfrirnd.I was so happy,and after awhile i was jealous he was jealous we realized that we were not as grown as we throught we were.we had been married for about 1 year i got preagent he would not work.i meet someone else got involved with him left my husband at 3 months pg. at this time i was almost 16 this man was25 i had my baby it was a girl i got a divorce 1 month later i was married again to this man i got involved with things was great for about 10 years no mager prolbems he was jealous but it really didn't really bother me then one day it did i felt like i was just there for his needs i felt like he was my father because i realized i had to answer to him for anything i wanted i finally grew up started realizing that hey i was grown.i didn't have to answer to him like i was i never looked back to the life i had an to my babys dad,i moved on this husband did not like the change he say coming over me so we started having trouble.let me stop for min. we have 2 children together plus mine.i left came back that was a roller coaster thing for about 9 years we divorced.it took the divorce to make him realize that i was my own person and that i left my daddy at home i needed a husband not another dad so 1 year later we remarry been married this time 7 years could not be any happier we resept each other we do things together we just injoy each other.now we have 4 grandkids and 1 on the way.i love my life we both serive the lord and that has really changed our lives.today i am 46 years old he is 55 we went through alot but it was worth it now i can see that at the time i could not.so reach out to the lord let him help yourmarriage maybe you want have to go through all i did god can change things for you god bless you an good luck to you you can e-mail me if you want to at [e-mail] i will be glad to talk to you if you need someone to talk to again god bless you have a wonderful day.god will bless you if you let him...............a friend Tina

Answer 6

you are so immature and what was a 24 year old doing dating a 16 year old? What is wrong with him? Honey you are to young to be married you should be out living and enjoying your life. If you are miserable leave now before you have children and that ties you down more.

Answer 7

um this is not good. i shall help u. ok one ur said ur not happy that tells me one thing this is not working.he dont make u happy and if hes not making u happy what are u doing there. maybe cuz u got no where to go. still if ur not happy and hate ur life thats not good. so u need to talk to ur husband and tell him how u feel. he is ur husband ur supposed to talk about anything. u cant just sit there and wait for him to change. he might not know u r unhappy so let him know. if he loves u which he does then he will try to work it out if not then hey u tried and it didnt work out. talk to him and c what he says.good luck im here on yahoo if u need to talk

Answer 8

Well good girl I am proud of you. You doing a good job. The thing is marriage kind of changes things. You need to keep looking nice , keep your hous clean and make meals for him. As for being jealous , you got him and no one else. Stop worrying. As long as he does not start running round on you you got nothing to worry about. Just try to keep looking peitty for him.

Answer 9

Relationships are tough at times. Communication is always the key. Have you tried talking to your husband about how you feel? He may be having problems that have nothing to do with you.

Answer 10

You're too young and immature, enjoy have fun, you were not really exposed to the real world.... obviously, you're not happy with him, life is too short....live life to the fullest!!!