me and boyfriend was in a relationship for 6 months...it was a perfect relationship but the problem was the distance thats why we broke up..and become friends...and now this summer im going to visit him in Canada and spent my holiday there. I hope you can give youre comments..thanks!
2006-07-24 04:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by sad girl008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh wow tht cud get reeeely messy!! if u guys broke up just cuz of the distance and nothing else at all then be careful..the old flame mite light up and u shud do smthn bout it if u dun want it anymore but if u do...well then good luck! its ur perfect chance
2006-07-24 04:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by sacred_90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a dear friend that after my divorce we became lovers for a short time. As good as it was there were major differences between us that as partners we just couldn't get around (I am a believer he is a dyed in the wool atheist). So we worked very hard at it and turned our relationship back to friendship. Yes, it was difficult and yes, it was worth it.
Your situation is different,it was distance that kept you apart rather than the religious ones that kept my friend and I apart.Tread carefully, when you visit him you may rekindle that old flame. It may be the best thing in the world for you, or not. Just go into the situation as an adult and not as a child thinking there will be no funny feelings or old emotions to deal with. If they happen deal with them, and realize that your friend may or may not be feeling the same way.
Keep communication open and take care of your heart up there in the great white north.
2006-07-24 04:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jane B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact: relationships don't always last! And if we hated everyone we've ever broken up with, this would be a sad world! (sadder than it already is anyway!).
However, when one of the two wants something else, you should probably take break from seeing each other until that person gets over it. I am in exactly the same situation right now, a long distance relationship that ended. But I know I made the right decision.
It would be worth keeping the relationship if there were deep feelings involved, which wasn't my case. If it's different for you, then keep trying!
2006-07-24 04:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance is a hard one. The important thing is not to get jealous over new loves. We will all move on. You must realize that once broken up, the same rules do not apply. If you guys can respect each other like that, then you can be amazing freinds that you will never find anywhere else.
2006-07-24 04:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by darrell_cheng 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be difficult but only time will tell. I'm going through the same thing so I honestly don't really know. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-24 04:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think after being lovers staying as only friends is difficult
2006-07-24 04:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a boyfriend for 2 years, and now i can say that he is my friend, yeah lovers can be friends but it depends on people...i think u can be good friends if u really want to.
2006-07-24 04:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i don't think lovers turning friends is that easy..... its not so simple to overcome or change your primary feelings towards any one!!!
2006-07-24 04:35:11 · answer #8 · answered by ZARIEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋