i broke with my bf, he had touched me every where getting married to someother how do i tell him my past?

Answer 1

you dont! Just say you are not a virgin. end of story. no need for details

Answer 2

Yeah, it so sad that you have to tell him the past because you didn't want to carry the bad past in your future marriage with your BF. and You did the right thing, because If you told him after Marriage it will end so quckly.

You have done the right thing and your BF make the choice. And you now not carry the any plm the past. I am very proud of you.

I did that too, I told my wife about my past and she can make the choice not marry me or yes. She made the choice of marry me and we have been married for 9 years and have 2 beautiful small children and working on third one. If she said no then I will not have this marriage and Good thing I am honest with her. ever since now.

Not many people will tell Husband or Wife about the past after marriage. But you done it right and you did it very brave. You do care about BF and you had to share it. smiling.

I told my wife about my past and she has a choice to marry or not. She made the choice and yes it hurts her but It better tell her now before married. Now we been married for 9 years and 2 beautiful small children and it sure it worth it to tell. I have been honest with her ever since from day before married to now and keep it like this forever.

Answer 3

You don't. Your past is your past, and isn't your current bf's business. If you feel compelled to try to mess up your relationship by giving details, then try to be general about it. You don't need to confess to how many men you've had sex with, what you did with them, or how great/bad it was. If your bf wants to know all of those details, then he's probably a controlling, jealous type, and giving him that information will just harm the relationship (as will not giving him the details...so go for the one that will be less harmful).

Answer 4

Tell him.
Its ok to take responsibility for your past. If you husband to be doesn't want you just because you have been intimate with someone in the past - then the relationship would anyway be plagued with other things like jealousy etc. Better to put it to test now.

Answer 5

Why is your past anyone's business but your own. If he wants to know about your past tell him you have one and you are sure he has one also. But neither one of them should be a subject for discussion. It is the present and the future that counts.

Answer 6

are you living in the past or the present. we all make mistakes and we all have things in the past that we not be proud of but its up to us to leave them in the past and live for the future
we learn from our past mistakes. if he doesn't ask about your past no need to tell him about it, he probably doesn't want to know. he is your future make plans and set goals for tomorrow and a successful relationship. don't let the past hinder your future.
live for tomorrow to many people live in the past already.

Answer 7

Let the PAST stay in the PAST. No need to bring up old stuff dear.

Answer 8

Don't tell him. Forget about the previous and start living a good life.

Answer 9

Dont worry about this-nobody expects someone to be a virgin these days-just look forward not back

Answer 10

well i really dont think you need to tell him about that its your past and everyone has a past if he asks dont lie and if your talkin about that then tell the truth but you dont need to maeka point of tellin him

Answer 11

i would advice dont tell him ur past. coz if u tell him ur past, he might change his mind 2 marry u. Jus make sure do never do it again...