I am considered the pretty girl in school but lots of the girls hate me because of that what do I do???????
2006-07-24 04:07:32 · 20 answers · asked by sexymama 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
you just think that
thank you
2006-07-24 04:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by cooks delight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those kind of people hate the ugly girls and the smart girls, too. If you're pretty and smart then they really hate you. You can't win with people like that. No matter what you do, they will always be waiting for a chance to criticize or gossip. They might grow up once they get married and have kids, but some will just stew in their own juices until they finally get cancer from just being such black-hearted souls. Pity them... for they have major self-esteem issues. Be civil to them no matter what, as this is the best defense and truly confuses them. Many people just go with the crowd, and maybe if you get to know some of these girls one-on-one they might get to know you, the real you, and realize that they were being very wrong in their judgement of you. Young women get very catty when then are fighting over the attention of men, so it's not really you, but the fact that these girls see that you're pretty and see that the guys are noticing you and not them.
There are plenty of guys to go around, and these girls will figure that out as they get older. Just be "above" it all and get some friends you can trust.
2006-07-24 11:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off. I hate to say it...but you sound pretty conceited. I'm sure there is more than one pretty girl in your school. And you are assuming that other girls hate you because youre pretty. It may be that they dislike you because you are CONCEITED! Quit focusing on your looks and focus on being a NICE PERSON!!! Perhaps talk to the other girls in your school and maybe get to know some of the girls you think hate you because youre........pretty. You might find that you all just didn't give each other a chance to GET TO KNOW each other. Leave your mirror at home and be as nice as you can be to others in your school,...........maybe things will change. Think about it.........if you are walking around assuming people dont like you because you are pretty.................that is a very superficial way of thinking! How about wondering if they don't like you because of your actions................and not assuming that its because you are prettier than they are. (NOTE>>>>>>>>they may not consider you to be the prettier girl if you're not a nice girl!) something to think about. Sorry to be harsh.........but you really need to wake up!
2006-07-24 11:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ambervisions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to everyone change the prettiest girl to the nicest,there will always be people who do not like us for one reason or another,love your enemies is a good rule to follow and do not concentrate on your outside appearance so much that will fade away but the kindness you share with some one may last a life time
2006-07-24 11:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you flaunt it? All the pretty girls I've known want all the attention from everyone, all the time. It's like they have to constantly be reassured. It is pathetic. Just try to be as nice as possible to EVERYONE, and the people who matter will realize what kind of person you are.
2006-07-24 11:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by kiki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they hate you cause you're pretty they aren't worth worrying about..they are just insecure & want you to feel that way too so you won't be any "competion" anymore!
2006-07-24 11:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they get jealous because prettier is always better
but it is not...because people just want the best in life
2006-07-24 11:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're jealous...it's not nice, but it's normal. The best advice I can give you is to be a nice person, don't get stuck on yourself, and ignore it.
2006-07-24 11:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are all just negative minded idiots, who think there is nothing better in life to do apart from impressing boys.
you can just carry on being you, don't worry too much because you are really worrying about nothing
2006-07-24 11:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they are insecure with themselves and find a pretty girl intimidating. Don't worry it's their problem, not yours. You shouldn't have to change to please them, just be yourself. If they don't like you, it's their loss : )
2006-07-24 12:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry about the small things girl just let it go ..as long as u love yourself the heck with what they think...
2006-07-24 11:12:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋