i don't no what is happening to me please help me?

Question

ok look im 14 and i kinda had a lil sex but we did the pull out rutine and right after he took it out he cummed but do u think any got in the and he wasnt using a condom and my stomic hurts right after i did it could i be pregnet

Answer 1

If this is you first time you are probably sore in your lower abdomen. It is too soon to know if you are pregnant if you just did it. Pulling out helps but the semen comes out all during the sexual act so you could be preg. Please stop now and think about your future. If you think are ready ,are you mature enough to take care of a child -putting them first and giving up your own life as a very young teen, and if you have good skills to work a decent job and support the baby every day getting up early after being up all night with a crying baby and still have a house to clean and pay the bills, then you may be ready to have sex. Every time you have sex you are asking for pregnancy to happen. You are also asking for STDs and the VIRUS, that so many young women and teens are getting ,that is turning into CANCER!!! You can get some bad stuff even when you are careful and it looks like you weren't and are not educated enough about sex. You don't need to have sex just because everyone is doing it(you think) or because some boy says he loves you-He doesn't at your age and only wants sex! Ask him if he is ready to take care of a baby or get stds., that will cool him off! Tell him to go home and take care of himself because you respect yourself better and this scare has taught you a lesson and stick to it! YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE BEST DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF,FOR WHAT IT WILL DO TO YOU NOW AND HOW IT WILL AFFECT YOUR FUTURE!!! Put yourself on a good start now to have your dreams come true, work toward your goals and be successful. Any animal can have sex, but humans have minds to know when the best time for them to have children is and it is not at 14!

Answer 2

God, you're so young and so stupid that it gives me the "willies" to think that you might be bringing a child into the world.

Look at your sentence. What's a "lil" sex? "Pull out rutine?" "He cummed?" "My stomic?" "Pregnet?"

You can't spell. You can't write. You don't know the first thing about human reproduction. Yet, you're having unprotected sex and could very well be pregnant.

Did you stop to think about how you're going to care for a baby? How will you support yourself and your child? If you don't finish high school, what kind of job can you qualify for?

Being an unwed, teenage mother is a recipe for life-long poverty. In recent years, the situation has become known as "the feminization of poverty."

If you were lucky enough NOT to have become pregnant, stop and answer the above questions before you have sex again.

Answer 3

No, your not pregnant if your stomach hurts RIGHT after you do it. His penis may have been pushing against your cervix and that can cause a lot of pain. It happens to me a lot after I have sex with my husband. He just can't go in all of the way. This happens to some girls.

Now, you could be pregnant but this wouldn't show till at least two weeks after you've had sex - possibly even longer. Things you will need to look for as signs of pregnancy are...

*darekening of the areolas
*cramps
*nausea
*headache
*heart burn
*being very tired
*late period

Next time you have sex, please consider using condoms and birth control both. At 14 you don't need STD's or a baby. These are HUGE responsibilities for anyone - especially a 14 year old. Just be safe sweetie and have a great day!

Answer 4

It can take up to 2 days before you become pregnant. It's not something that happens right away. Don't trust the pull out method because you can become pregnant from the pre-ejaculation. I am not here to tell you not to have sex but become a little more educated about it. Always us condoms! STDs are not fun at all and neither is becoming a mother so early. Trust me. My son was born 5 months before my 21st birthday and I still should have waited. Your high school and college years are the best years of your life. Enjoy them.

Answer 5

you don't get instantly pregnant first of all.

2nd just cause you did the pull out doesn't mean he pulled it out in time. Could have "dripped" some before hand.

3rd and most important, you can't have a lil sex. Its either all or none. And what in the world at the age of 14 are you doing have any sex? 14? You are on a collision course to be pregnant by 15 if you keep this up and potential ruin the rest of your life.

Answer 6

The pull-out routine is NOT a form of birth control. If you don't want to be a mother at 14, don't play around with sex. You're still a baby. Besides, there's this thing called a condom that is used during sex if you don't want to make a baby or get an STD. STDs are bad. They can give you warts on your vagina. (Warts are cauliflour-type moles, and are not attractive-especially on a vagina or penis.) Do you want future boyfriends looking at warts on your 'gina? They can also affect your brain, and even kill you. Don't have sex until you are old enough to deal with it!!!! Your parents will be grateful.

Answer 7

Sorry to tell you that but it is Little stupid from your side.
Do you relay want to be a little mother in your 14?
If you already start your sex live please use condoms or pills. because your not ready for real live on your own.
I guess it was your first time or ones in 1-3 months and your guy was big or much heavier then you are, also he was on top of you for the most of the time and worked hard. that is why your stomach hurts.
On other thing go and check your self on pregnancy just in case.

Answer 8

Not sure if your parents told you but you should not be having sex and if you do USE BIRTH CONTROL

Yes there is a chance you can be pregnant

You are way too young to be messing around with adult activities anyway.

Go talk to your parents, see a doctor and get tested.

If you are not pregnant then you should stop having sex and wait till you are a grown woman, married and stable in life to be having sex since you take no responsibility in using birth control to prevent babies and STDs

Answer 9

Pre-ejaculation occurs all throughout sex and does contain sperm, so yes, you can get pregnant. Also, sperm lives for 5-8 days!

Pain during sex, besides for the obvious reasons((penis size, virgin vagina, forceful thrusts)), can be a sign of something wrong. H.P.V. (human papilloma virus) is very common, under-tested, under-reported, misdiagnosed, and can cause pre-cancer/cancer. One sign is pain or bleeding during/after sex. There is no cure, like many STD's.

If you are mature enough to have sex, than you are mature enough to seek a gynaecologist, get testing, and definitely request birth control and contraceptive protection (condoms).

words of wisdom ~ respect and love yourself or noone else will.

Answer 10

Sweetie, you should ALWAYS use a condom if you are going to have sex. Even if he didn't *** inside you, his precum is enough to get you preggers. AND what about protecting yourself against STD's?

Your stomache hurting right after you had sex doesn't mean you are PG. It just means you did physical exercise, just like your stomache may hurt a bit after running or doing situps.