i love my husband so much that i am willing to tolerate everything and give him all the love in the world. how would i know if he feels my love for him? but i know he loves me so much too.
2006-07-24 02:37:20 · 15 answers · asked by music 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is what True Love is all about:
It was a busy morning, approximately 8:30 a.m., when an elderly gentleman in his 80's, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He stated that he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him look at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, we began to engage in conversation. I
Asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was
In such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the
Nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
I then inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer' S Disease. As we talked, I asked if she
Would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?" He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is." I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life."
True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be. With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there are some that come along that have an important message, and this is one of those kind. Just had to share it with you all.
2006-07-24 02:43:04 · answer #1 · answered by Shy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just like my husband. He is always worried that i dont know how much he loves and cares about me. The truth is id be a jerk and a blind fool not to see it. Everytime i look into his eyes i can see it. every kiss he gives me every touch that he gives in passing. Not to forget the other million things he does like learning not to do things that annoy me. Marriage is a give and take situation. always give more than you take from someone. and dont worry about wether he knows so much bc that could put a strain on the relationship. Just remember to say how you feel everynow and then and let the things you do say it everyday. How he responds to you and the things he does in return should tell you how he feels back
2006-07-24 09:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself first, otherwise you will resent him for all of the times that you put his interests before yours. He will love you if you're a good wife, not a doormat. If he wants a doormat tell their on sale at Home Depot. You have to set boundaries, people will only go as far as you let them. Let him know that you love him by, telling him, respecting him, and honoring him. Youve got to put your foot down every once in a while, guys dig that. Tell him that youre from Brooklyn (even if you're not) and that you're not gonna tolerate that!!
2006-07-24 09:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Muchacha Mala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre willing to tolerate everything, you must not love him that much, because you dont fully love yourself.
2006-07-24 09:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by hollywoodqueen_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya my husband is the same way and he tells me and lets me now and shows me how much he loves me they can tell and feel how much you love him so dont get woored ok just love him ok
2006-07-24 09:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by anngle2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell and show him your love. Only you will know how ? Congratulation to both of you.
2006-07-24 09:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he knows, show love to anyone and they will feel it.
2006-07-24 09:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry no opinion on this one....just wanted to comment on what an *** Pookie was in her answer. Grow up! What an idiot, hope you ignored her.
2006-07-24 09:42:20 · answer #8 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. You can see it in the things he does for you and in the way we kisses you.
2006-07-24 09:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by cutesquaw69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can see it in his eyes and by how he acts. if he seems content he probably knows you love him.
2006-07-24 09:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋