My boyfriend died late last year i now hav a new boyfriend who i love but i dont know how 2 tell my ex boyfriends mum, n i hate hiding my new boyfriend away. My relationship with my ex was more like best friends, but my new relationship is the real thing n ive neva been this happy.
2006-07-24 01:25:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im worried cos maybe she thinks its 2 soon i personally dont but we became v close after his death n i dont want 2 break r bond
2006-07-24 01:27:13 · update #1
pyar kiya to darna kya
if u love why u scared
2006-07-24 01:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is a tricky one, but it is not really fair to hide your new boyfriend away as he might think you are ashamed of him or something. Rather than tiptoeing around I think it would be best to sit your ex boyfriend's mum down and tell her that you did love her son and you will never forget him, but you have now met someone else and that you still want to maintain a friendship with her. It is then up to her how she takes it. If it is meant to be that she breaks ties with you, then just accept that some people come into our lives for a reason, and then go out again. You shouldn't have to jeapordise your new found happiness. It won't be easy but I wish you every happiness for the future. Good luck!
2006-07-24 08:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your loss babe. But you and your relationship is nothing to do with your late boyfriends mother. NOTHING. We are all entitled to happiness in this life - and you cant deprive yourself of happiness because of your exs mother. If shes the decent type she'll realise that you went through pain when he died, and now she'll be happy that you've been given a chance of happiness. If she gets moody Id walk away from her - she's only acting selfish and you really dont need to be tied to her.
2006-07-24 08:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are u talking bout double life. u loss ur ex im sorry for that and u have got over it and thats good cuz he not coming back and why should u be alone. so im glad u found another and its been a year that plenty of time for evrybody to understand that u have moved on. why are u hiding him im sure he dont like that. u need to be proud to have nim as ur man and reveal him to all.ur ex bf mom needs to be happy for u.im glad u found someone to make u happy so be happy all the way.stop hiding him and have fun.u r doing nothing wrong it has been way to long time to show everyone u have moved on and they need to accept.besides ur new guy dont deserve to be hidden.good luck
2006-07-24 08:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear little child , you need not to think much on this issue , as you are mature enough now to think differently & it is good you are taking charge of your self , keep it up and go ahead to start you life fresh by not remembring past , which has already gone , no one can go back hunting past , you need not to feel guilty & need not to share with ex's fly . For what you want to be live in depressed situation . Stand / jump / laugh / enjoy , new world is waiting to take you in the open arms .
2006-07-24 08:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey Im sorry for your loss, but life does go on, and im sure your ex's mum would want you to be happy again. This is an opportunity for you to be, so im sure she will be fine with it. Just make sure that you are the one to tell and not anyone else as this may hurt her feelings. But I think that she will conmpletely understand, the way you are feeling, and that you have to see other people. Good luck and i hope all goes well for you. x
2006-07-24 08:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk about dating with her not mentioning that you have a new b/f and see how she reacts .
Maybe make something up like a guy from work keeps asking you out and you don't know what to do.
That helps you discuss dating and maybe you can say you met you boyfriend .
2006-07-24 08:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm sorry you bf died and I'm sure his mother would understand that you've moved on. You don't have to tell her unless it comes up in conversation. Then you can tell her he reminds you so much of her son. It will make her feel better about the whole thing.
2006-07-24 08:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex-bf's mom is really a friend of yours then she'll understand your situation. I think you should tell her because it's better if you'll tell her personally than to hear it from someone else. She might feel betrayed if that happens so go and tell her about your new bf. Good Luck!
2006-07-24 08:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Clauds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her... you cant stay single forever..your x boyfriend is gone..there is nothing you or his mum can do to have him back.. its time for youand and him mum to move on and what better way to move on than with a new man..i know you might feel guilty or upset but im sure your x bnoyfriend would be happy if he saw you happy... good luck :)
2006-07-24 08:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by IrishLassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your loss
he's not a substitute
he's a new start don't hide this fact
you need to move on and enjoy the rest of your live
you will never forget him
she will come round and be happy for you
you'll see
2006-07-28 08:33:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋