love story
2006-07-24 00:16:59 · 16 answers · asked by lucky d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I ve been married for 9 month, i know her 1 month than i merri her, third day after we married her ex boy frien call her, and its remind her about all their day. tahn she promise me that she will always love me. but they still keep in touch till now??? what can i do, cause u know i love so much.... i knew her 1 monthh than i married her, cau i feel confertable with her.... i don`t want to loose her....she is my live
2006-07-24 00:37:06 · update #1
I am aman and i never knew her ex, i just know his phone number and it out of the country. i can`t do nothings to that guy, he is not even pick up my call. i need to talk to him.
2006-07-24 00:47:03 · update #2
hurt but think that she still luv him the way u do.. so better u gt hurt n try 2 gt them 2gthr n be a gentleman or stay away n giv her more room to decide her own life.. as for u don worry, thers still lots of fishes in the sea... life is worth living..
2006-07-24 00:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by gazxz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, create a day. Go to the best place where the 2 of you like most. Have fun there. Be there for each other. Then, smartly and calmly, Stick it out and talk to your partner. Communication is the only way problems can be solved. yes, dare and have an honest conversation. Tell her how you feel. Tell her how much you love her. Again, be open to whatever that might come out of your talk.
2006-07-24 07:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by kaju 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be insane jealosy, resentment towards the ex lover. it can be hurt for the person you love, it can be wanting to protect them.
alot of the best things you can do depends on how they broke up. if the ex cheated then the baggage will be far reaching, if they broke up without warnign then he will be feeling lonely and a bit lost. if it was just sex then i wouldnt worry. be sure to tell the person in little ways why you think they are great. but dont push emotions or experiences too hard. he will realise that you are there for him, and it may lead somewhere. are you with the person? have you ever been? or are you just friends?
2006-07-24 00:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite hurtful to experience something like that.
But just make things easier and move on. But before you do that ask her who she prefers. It's clear even the ex is still in love with her and it's only a matter of time before they get together and cheat on you
2006-07-24 00:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the movie "Sweet Home Alabama." It's possible for someone to be honestly confused about their feelings.
Getting to the true reality of feelings is key, but not always easy.
Protect yourself and realize that if it isn't meant to be, take a deep breath and move on.
2006-07-24 00:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Love2Sew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel deceived and betrayed but when I am in love it is difficult not to overlook that. I am not in that situation now so the easy answer is get out of the relationship. It could lead to a lot of heartache.
2006-07-24 01:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by John C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant change the way someone feels about someone, the guy/girl you love is still in love with the ex. you can be there for them, but i think that you need to find someone to fulfill your own selfworth. find a man/woman who loves you the same! i say move on... It is a known fact that there is someone out there who cares for you like you care for this person... look around you
2006-07-24 00:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just going to have to let this one go. if she/he is in love with someone else then it clearly means that you are being slightly used for the time being, so all your efforts are going un noticed. spend time away from her/him and also make it clear how you feel. honesty in these situations always works. at this time i get the impression that she/he might be comparing you to this ex lover and you do not need that . you are trying hard enough as it is . you do not need someone to make you feel that you are not enough for them. be strong
2006-07-24 00:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by candystore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long after they broke up did you guys get together? maybe there should have been alonger time period... but also there are some people that you will never completly get over, and that you will always love even though you know that you will never be with them. talk to this person and see if thats it or if they really want to get back with them, and if they really want to get back with them, then leave
2006-07-24 00:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by tabbyjo27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult.....sometimes you question how they really feel about you....it they're just biding their time until they can convince the ex to come back to them.......or if they're really in love with you....it can be a very emotionally stressful time.........GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-24 00:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋