Can I leave semen inside my vagina after sex
2006-07-24 00:13:53 · 15 answers · asked by surabhi 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There is no medical reason to wash straight away after sex. However, if you want to, you boyfriend has no right to stop you!
Is he trying to get you pregnant against your wishes perhaps?
Whatever, he is a controlling man and I wouldn't let this lie. Have a think - does he control you in other ways not just this one? I bet you'll think of a few other examples.
BTW, don't ever ever think you can't get pregnant if wash after sex - of course you can. If you don't want to get pregnant make damn sure you are using contraception. In your case, make sure you are not just relying on your man for protection as he doesn't sound like he has your best interests at heart.
2006-07-24 01:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not let your boyfriend tell you what to do with your own body.... it's not a healthy dynamic! If you want to wash yourself, then by all means do so - he should not stop you! ....and think about if you want to be in a relationship with someone who tells you what to do and expects you to do it...
Yes, you can leave semen in your vagina after sex... it's just not the best thing especially if you wish to avoid bladder infections, yeast infections, leaking the rest of the evening (if bedtime), possible STDs, and pregnancy (I would hope that you are using birth control if you don't want a child now!).
2006-07-24 04:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by oscarboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , you can leave it in after sex, it can lead to odors down there. He shouldn't tell you how to take care of your body though, I recommend a shower with both of you in it afterwords, you can continue the closeness, and maybe excite for another round!
Leaving it in afterwords is going to help if you want to get pregnant, if that is what you want to do. Some even recommend propping up on a pillow or something so it doesn't seep out and make the dreaded "wet spot" on the sheets!
Hope this helped you.
2006-07-24 00:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by theonetolookfore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but this is a control thing and YOU are the one being controlled!!!! I don't believe any harm can come to you from leaving the semen inside of you other than the increased risk of unwanted pregnancy. I would encourage you to do what makes you feel good in regard to this situation, you have a choice here!!! Exercise that choice!!!
2006-07-24 01:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by gamerunner2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, he does not "allow" you to? What is that? Don't let him be controlling, if he thinks he can control you on this it will only lead to worse controlling. Tell him that he is sick if he thinks you are going to continue to do that. Tell him when he grows a vagina then he can do what he wants to with it, but as far as yours, you are going to do what is healthy...and that is wash it!!
2006-07-24 00:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can, but it's not sanitary. It can cause bad smells, not to mention it just doesn't seem like it would feel clean. My question to you is, what do you mean he won't allow(?!?) you to clean up after. If he wants it that way, then don't allow him to ejacualte inside of you, and condom would take care of the problem quite nicely. Then when he's done, tell him he's not allowed to take it off.
2006-07-24 00:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by S J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud go and wash it off otherwise it can make u to pay for it.
if ur bf insists u to do so just ask him to suck after the intercourse
if he denies say him to have sex under the shower
2006-07-24 00:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by miths 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl that is nasty, its not clean. Tell ur bf u have to wash its part of hygiene, it could cause a nasty smell and u would feel uncomfortable.
i hope u r using pills or something or u could get pregnant
2006-07-24 00:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by oye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him to the door & don't ever let him back in. he's trying to get you pregnant. yes you'll have semen in you. you'll have it for seven days afterward too. you have to immediately try to flush it out, unless you want to have a baby on the way.
2006-07-24 00:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by yorkie lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to marry u instead if he want u to keep semen in ur vagina. thats not rite. poor girl,u give ur body to him but he treat u like wat? better to solve this matter sooner before got pg. this my advise to u.all the best.
2006-07-24 04:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by cole_blues 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋