I was introduced to a person who a friend knew. I happened to be waiting at the same spot as her for the bus each day. So now we say hello. I didn't think we got along, we don't seem to have much in common and don't say a whole lot to each other.
The first day another of her friends came along, and she was much more animated. Then the next day we exchanged a couple of words and I figured she was being polite so I got on the bus ahead of her and took a two-seater assuming she would take the opportunity to take a different seat, but she sat next to me. So now I'm confused - I guess cos I've always been a talker. Hate silence.
It sounds like she leads a reasonably quiet life.
Any opinions? Should I ask if she wants to hang out sometime?
2006-07-23 23:37:37 · 4 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi maggie ,just ak him or her to hang out and make friends
2006-07-23 23:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by gen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
you know may be she is just shy or an introvert.. a lot of people around are like that. They need a push, thats it.
Kinda invite her for a party or something initially so that there isnt any awkardness betwen you guys and you guys will get a chance to see if you guys click :)
Party for the reason that even if there is "silence" as you said, there will be other distractions for both of you like say music or food;)
If you guys do then you can start hanging around togehter.
take care
2006-07-24 07:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by yashashvi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it Maggs. I reckon you should break the silence and talk about your common friend and what the most embarassing ting they know about them. Then you both go up to the common friend later and tease em - and ebfore you know it - MENAGER!
2006-07-24 07:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by mrblob8808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maggs,
Why not, all she can say is no. No harm no foul !!
2006-07-24 06:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋