Hi frnds,
In today's world where its hard to live with a person who is not loving, caring and is cruel, is it okay to stick with him entire life? or rather will you not mind enjoying some good time with a person other than your husband/wife who can give you love, care everything...? r would you keep torturing your self entire life with your present partner? think about it and reply guyz?
2006-07-23 23:30:15 · 13 answers · asked by maggie 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
being married means i would have signed a contract : i will NOT come back on my word, so extra marital affairs are excluded. But as with any kind of contract, there are always ending clauses to the contract. If i don't love my wife anymore and want to go with someone else, i will do so after i get divorced.
2006-07-23 23:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ideally you talk with your mate honestly and the two of you are able to work it out live together happily, but there are some truly stubborn people out there who refuse to behave like adults and separation may be helpful. I don't support divorce but get that sometimes there is no other option.
Having an affair is not an option if you want to be with someone else tell your mate before you go be with the other person and tell your mate why.
I was taught that breaking promises and lying are wrong and that is exactly what an affair is, regardless of what drove you from your mate. Why would marry someone who is so unbearable any way?
2006-07-23 23:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty love care..... You may think about having an affair but the reasons to be dishonest to yourself and actually have an affair. Both partners should be aware of faults in the relationship, to actually try to correct those faults with a deceitful response is unwise. Being unhappy with a current partner and staying with him for life will lead to mental instability, Either try to resolve and confront the issues or dissolve the marriage. Otherwise these issues will eventually destroy you. Life is about choices, make one and make it work.
2006-07-24 00:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by J B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't support extramarital affairs. If you fall in love with someone else, yes, get a divorce! I don't support divorces either, but at least, that would be the honest thing to do.
2006-07-24 06:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by furienna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We women mostly sacrifice our desires and happiness due to our children, If you have no children, you can immediately leave this cruel man and enjoy with someone who gives you happiness, but when you have small children then it is difficult. You should be independent, you and your children should not be burden to your new relation nor you should be dependent on your old relationship. What ever you do , do it openly, don't hide and feel guilty , then you can never be happy.
2006-07-24 00:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The true supporter of extra marital affairs is the one who can allow his/her partner to fall in love with other people not the one who allows himself/herself to fall in love with other people. Can you support your spouse to find one on top of you?
2006-07-23 23:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Munguru 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
extramariatal affair unacceptable. try divorce or alternative forms of satisfaction which is not selfish. extramarital affairs are signs of selfishness and egoistic tendencies especially among men. but research has shown that similar people are always paired so if both of you have similar tendencies then it is OK!
2006-07-23 23:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by ngonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love someone leave them. People who stay together for children do so for the wrong reason. Leave your spouse and move on with your life.
2006-07-23 23:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
true...u got to give thumbs up to extra...
divorce or death of partner results in seeking next partner.. and its another form of seeing second partner which is nearly equal to extra marital affair.
2006-07-23 23:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by juljulabie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are against having a divorce you can also consider seperating from your mate. Does either of those sound good to you or are you hell bent on cheating.
2006-07-23 23:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋